Can someone explain to me how a live-in nanny situation works?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Oh please! You don't always know if it will be a good fit going in .

So leave instead of complaining to everyone what a servant your job makes you. I never understand the nannies who do nothing but complain about how they are treated like slaves. You chose that as your job..no one is forcing you to stay.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Oh please! You don't always know if it will be a good fit going in .

So leave instead of complaining to everyone what a servant your job makes you. I never understand the nannies who do nothing but complain about how they are treated like slaves. You chose that as your job..no one is forcing you to stay.

I'm so confused! I never said anything about being a servant.

[Anonymous]

This is what I hate about being a live-in nanny, your employer could fire you for any little thing. They could just wake up 1 day and decide they don't like you and you're out of a job AND a place . It's also VERY uncomfortable when you give notice .

[Anonymous]

I agree. Being a nanny is a draining profession but being a live-in is even harder. I never felt like I had time to recoup since I was living in.

[Anonymous]

OP here again -- thank you for all of your responses. If we go this route, our nanny will have her own apartment -- own entrance, own kitchen, own living room and own separate bedroom.

I will say that the only reason we'd consider doing this is to save money on child care costs by using the place to live as part of the compensation. So, it sounds like that might not be the best fit for a lot of nannies.

I am a "rule follower" so I think our potential nanny would be safe from "could you just watch the kids for 15 mins?" with us.

Thanks again and we'd welcome any additional feedback!

[Anonymous]

I am living in the basement apt of a family that needs 30 hrs a month. I work full time for others. Our works well for me and when they don't need me anymore I'll look for something similar. I think this situation can work well for the right personality. You need someone whose pretty laid back and not entitled like a lot of people on here. Might be a good fit for someone a little older who doesn't party, bring strange men home a lot, and has no interest in home ownership.

[Anonymous]

Since I always still maintain my own place, a live-in job pays my regular rates, if not more. It's a convience for the employers. PIA for the nanny.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Being a live in nanny is the worst job I've ever had. You would have to pay me $50/hr to ever live with my employers ever again. It's not a perk for the nanny, she's living at her job!!

I'm sure it's not a 'perk' for the parents as well. Yeah they get the availability of knowing the nanny will be on time as well as a discount rates but c'mon.. Do you think your bosses enjoy your constant company? LOL, NO!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Being a live in nanny is the worst job I've ever had. You would have to pay me $50/hr to ever live with my employers ever again. It's not a perk for the nanny, she's living at her job!!

I'm sure it's not a 'perk' for the parents as well. Yeah they get the availability of knowing the nanny will be on time as well as a discount rates but c'mon.. Do you think your bosses enjoy your constant company? LOL, NO!

Then there is no need for them to hire a live-in nanny! There are many nannies that will come in really early and/or stay really late. Usually there is a reason they want someone to live-in, and that is always more to their benefit than to the nanny.

[Anonymous]

Great way to save money, yes. Will I ever do it again, no!

[Anonymous]

I was a live in for five years and I loved it. It worked well for me. I don't nanny anymore because of a MS diagnosis a year ago, but would probably still be doing it if not for that. I loved getting to know the families and I was "part of the family" nanny. It is really important to find the right fit and constantly communicate with each other.

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My boss is like a mom to me and the pay is not bad, I would stay with her for as long as she needs me.

[Anonymous]

Parents love knowing you are right there.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Not to be rude, but it is NOT 'free rent' when the nanny is working. Just a pet peeve that I can't stand...

Sure it is. It's a benefit, like any other, and is considered in the compensation package offered to a nanny.

It is a benefit to the family, never to the nanny. Living with your boss is never beneficial to a nanny.

[Anonymous]

To the OP, have you found someone? I cover my own food, expenses et. Let me know if you are interested, thanks