https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1322588.page
https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1321142.page
https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1322129.page
Are these the same OP? I think there was another that seemed like the same thing as well, essentially OP wanting "permission" to force the kid to do an activity they had no interest in.