I married the wrong guy...should have been the hedge fund guy

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[Post New]04/28/2020 11:49
Anonymous
You people are all dbags.
[Post New]04/28/2020 12:01
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Sometimes they are not hotter . . . at all. One of my very successful exes married a woman who is not physically attractive at all. Some rich guys are married to not very attractive women.


How cute! This post typifies an updated version of this poster's mom telling her that boys are not asking her out because she is too pretty and it scares them.

No, most of the time they are much hotter than the girls they banged along the way.

And again sometimes they are not. People get married for a variety of reasons. My ex did, in fact, marry a woman who is not objectively physically attractive. She is pale, plain, short, stocky and is very masculine looking. Granted, she must have some attributes that he liked, but looks was probably not one of them. Anyway, sorry but no one would say that she is hotter than me. She isn’t. But she got to marry the love of my life, so can’t I just have the small indulgence of knowing that I am way hotter than her?


You are hotter in your own mind. Something about your "beauty" left the guy totally cold. Beauty certainly is in the eye of the beholder.

Ah, yes. The DCUM harpies just love the story where the less attractive woman gets the guy. They can relate.
[Post New]04/28/2020 12:03
ddintysons
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Does your ex, by chance, have a Kate Gosseling haircut?



It is now shorter. She is very bright and works in IT. Used to be very fit; however, now she is showing the wear and tear.

I went bald early so she was doing better lookswise until about 40. Then, she dropped faster than the market did after the COVID shutdown.

Enough about her. What about you, you cute vengeful little thing you?

[Post New]04/28/2020 12:05
Anonymous
I used to tell my husband that I should have married so and so, so he went and looked up the other guy on Google and it turns out they have almost the same job, the same hobbies, similar homes and they're both aging equally badly. Joke was on me!
[Post New]04/28/2020 12:33
Anonymous
ddintysons wrote:
Does your ex, by chance, have a Kate Gosseling haircut?



It is now shorter. She is very bright and works in IT. Used to be very fit; however, now she is showing the wear and tear.

I went bald early so she was doing better lookswise until about 40. Then, she dropped faster than the market did after the COVID shutdown.

Enough about her. What about you, you cute vengeful little thing you?


Well they say that good looking men are good looking men whether they are bald or not, so don’t be so hard on yourself.
[Post New]04/28/2020 12:46
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I used to tell my husband that I should have married so and so, so he went and looked up the other guy on Google and it turns out they have almost the same job, the same hobbies, similar homes and they're both aging equally badly. Joke was on me!


That is so funny!

My first husband was a cute guy with a great high paying job from a rich family. His dad owned some businesses in another country. Long story, but I ended up divorcing him. It was a hard decision because of what I stated. I remarried but at times I did question whether I did the right thing. He was also very bad with money, and common sense wasn't his strong point.

A few years back I found out he died. His widow contacted me because the pension plan wasn't giving her his accounts. Since we were married at the time and the QDRO designated each as the contingent beneficiary that left her out. I almost felt bad because she was actually very nice. Turns out when his dad died his business had quite a bit of debt. Then my ex probably didn't help matters any, and from what she said had to pay all the debt as executor of his estate. Then I went on missingmoney.com and found out he had over 5k in accounts he forgot about and never closed. Funny how things turn out, but I know I dodged a bullet.

Make your own life good, you don't know that other guy, or what goes on behind closed doors.
[Post New]04/28/2020 13:12
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:I married the hedge fund guy. We are worth $300m, but I will leave him in a year and a half, after my dc is in college. He is not worth it.


Will you also give up all that money? Good for you to follow your heart!


Don’t be ridiculous! She’s not giving it up; she’s taking half. Easiest decision of her life I am sure.
[Post New]04/28/2020 17:41
ddintysons
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Well they say that good looking men are good looking men whether they are bald or not, so don’t be so hard on yourself.


I hope they (i.e., the "they" that say this sort of things) are cute and looking for that ever so special yet shy NoVA bald guy. And they divorced the hedge fund guy so we can afford to eat at El Tio every night once they reopen.
[Post New]04/28/2020 18:22
Anonymous
NP - this thread is a real hoot! I didn't marry a hedge fund guy (who are often slovenly with greasy hair) but I married a guy who is now worth about $70 million - before the correction! When I met him he was making about $30,000 a year the same as me. He was handsome and sweet and I knew he was smart and had ambition. He hasn't changed in 35 years.
[Post New]04/28/2020 18:29
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:NP - this thread is a real hoot! I didn't marry a hedge fund guy (who are often slovenly with greasy hair) but I married a guy who is now worth about $70 million - before the correction! When I met him he was making about $30,000 a year the same as me. He was handsome and sweet and I knew he was smart and had ambition. He hasn't changed in 35 years.


Wow, $70 million!
Maybe not hedge fund money but that’s way more than almost anyone could ever hope for.
Good for you.
[Post New]04/28/2020 18:30
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I married the hedge fund guy. We are worth $300m, but I will leave him in a year and a half, after my dc is in college. He is not worth it.


Will you also give up all that money? Good for you to follow your heart!


Don’t be ridiculous! She’s not giving it up; she’s taking half. Easiest decision of her life I am sure.


I was being sarcastic.
[Post New]04/28/2020 18:43
Anonymous
I actually have two friends who got caught up in emotional affairs with ex boyfriends and left their husbands to be with the ex. One is very very happy.

The other has a nice life on paper but isn't happy. All the things that made her break up with him before were still there but worse.
[Post New]04/28/2020 19:33
Anonymous
ddintysons wrote:
Well they say that good looking men are good looking men whether they are bald or not, so don’t be so hard on yourself.


I hope they (i.e., the "they" that say this sort of things) are cute and looking for that ever so special yet shy NoVA bald guy. And they divorced the hedge fund guy so we can afford to eat at El Tio every night once they reopen.

You don’t sound so shy, Bald Guy.
[Post New]04/28/2020 21:35
ddintysons
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True. I am far from shy.
[Post New]04/28/2020 21:40
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Sometimes they are not hotter . . . at all. One of my very successful exes married a woman who is not physically attractive at all. Some rich guys are married to not very attractive women.


How cute! This post typifies an updated version of this poster's mom telling her that boys are not asking her out because she is too pretty and it scares them.

No, most of the time they are much hotter than the girls they banged along the way.

And again sometimes they are not. People get married for a variety of reasons. My ex did, in fact, marry a woman who is not objectively physically attractive. She is pale, plain, short, stocky and is very masculine looking. Granted, she must have some attributes that he liked, but looks was probably not one of them. Anyway, sorry but no one would say that she is hotter than me. She isn’t. But she got to marry the love of my life, so can’t I just have the small indulgence of knowing that I am way hotter than her?


You are hotter in your own mind. Something about your "beauty" left the guy totally cold. Beauty certainly is in the eye of the beholder.

Ah, yes. The DCUM harpies just love the story where the less attractive woman gets the guy. They can relate.


Bezos and his new woman come to mind. Wife 1 was way hotter.
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