I married the wrong guy...should have been the hedge fund guy

Anonymous
When you are not living with someone it is easier to see only their best selves...
Anonymous
Maybe OP. I get where you’re coming from. But just look at all the celebrity divorces like Caballari. Apparently they looked great and multiple affairs. Maybe this great guy would have had a crisis or who know what else. I don’t fault you for wanting a beach place. Maybe your goal should be to get a condo with DH?
Anonymous
I get it op. I'm in a cramped house in Wheaton and my DH is being a jerk and his boss is making him go in so I feel unsafe. My ex who I could have married owns his own firm and has a gorgeous house in California with a pool and is able to fully telecommute. I'd rather be quarantining there.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:But did you love the other guy?? Or is this all about the $$?[/quote

I have the same question.

I feel so crazy I married for love.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I hooked up with an attractive guy at a party in college, but met my now-husband soon after, fell hard, and dropped the first guy.

My husband is handsome and wonderful and we have a happy life together. But... that first guy is still attractive.

And also the co-founder of Twitter.


One of them is off his rocker.
Anonymous
OP do you love DH?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
That’s the point. I am a good “catch”.


Sure you are, sweetie.

The hedge fund guy's 2nd or 3rd mistress is likely 10x hotter than you. On a bad day.

Moreover, your husband's mistress (or law clerk he is nailing) is hotter as well, even with an allowance for your mileage.


Why are you being so mean?
Anonymous
That's tough OP.

Sound like you need to spark the romance in your relationship. Wear something sexy.... Cook his favorite food... Offer him a back rub...

Put effort into your relationship! You will find it to be a good investment. Especially during these trying times.

STOP messaging old flings. You're a married woman and your focus should be on one man
Anonymous
You married the wrong guy? Then you are indeed stupid, your DH a chump and the other guy incredibly lucky. You also had kids with the chump? LOL. What kind of kids did you have? Stupid Chumps?
Anonymous
I married the hedge fund guy. We are worth $300m, but I will leave him in a year and a half, after my dc is in college. He is not worth it.
Anonymous
Troll!
This doesn’t make any sense!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I married the hedge fund guy. We are worth $300m, but I will leave him in a year and a half, after my dc is in college. He is not worth it.


Will you also give up all that money? Good for you to follow your heart!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Troll!
This doesn’t make any sense!

+1
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
That’s the point. I am a good “catch”.


Sure you are, sweetie.

The hedge fund guy's 2nd or 3rd mistress is likely 10x hotter than you. On a bad day.

Moreover, your husband's mistress (or law clerk he is nailing) is hotter as well, even with an allowance for your mileage.

Sometimes they are not hotter . . . at all. One of my very successful exes married a woman who is not physically attractive at all. Some rich guys are married to not very attractive women.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I hooked up with an attractive guy at a party in college, but met my now-husband soon after, fell hard, and dropped the first guy.

My husband is handsome and wonderful and we have a happy life together. But... that first guy is still attractive.

And also the co-founder of Twitter.


Yes, a frat party hook-up = almost marriage. Darn...!
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