I married the wrong guy...should have been the hedge fund guy

[Anonymous]

When you are not living with someone it is easier to see only their best selves...

[Anonymous]

Maybe OP. I get where you’re coming from. But just look at all the celebrity divorces like Caballari. Apparently they looked great and multiple affairs. Maybe this great guy would have had a crisis or who know what else. I don’t fault you for wanting a beach place. Maybe your goal should be to get a condo with DH?

[Anonymous]

I get it op. I'm in a cramped house in Wheaton and my DH is being a jerk and his boss is making him go in so I feel unsafe. My ex who I could have married owns his own firm and has a gorgeous house in California with a pool and is able to fully telecommute. I'd rather be quarantining there.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:But did you love the other guy?? Or is this all about the $$?[/quote

I have the same question.

I feel so crazy I married for love.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I hooked up with an attractive guy at a party in college, but met my now-husband soon after, fell hard, and dropped the first guy.

My husband is handsome and wonderful and we have a happy life together. But... that first guy is still attractive.

And also the co-founder of Twitter.

One of them is off his rocker.

[Anonymous]

OP do you love DH?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

That’s the point. I am a good “catch”.

Sure you are, sweetie.

The hedge fund guy's 2nd or 3rd mistress is likely 10x hotter than you. On a bad day.

Moreover, your husband's mistress (or law clerk he is nailing) is hotter as well, even with an allowance for your mileage.

Why are you being so mean?

[Anonymous]

That's tough OP.

Sound like you need to spark the romance in your relationship. Wear something sexy.... Cook his favorite food... Offer him a back rub...

Put effort into your relationship! You will find it to be a good investment. Especially during these trying times.

STOP messaging old flings. You're a married woman and your focus should be on one man

[Anonymous]

You married the wrong guy? Then you are indeed stupid, your DH a chump and the other guy incredibly lucky. You also had kids with the chump? LOL. What kind of kids did you have? Stupid Chumps?

[Anonymous]

I married the hedge fund guy. We are worth $300m, but I will leave him in a year and a half, after my dc is in college. He is not worth it.

[Anonymous]

Troll!
This doesn’t make any sense!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I married the hedge fund guy. We are worth $300m, but I will leave him in a year and a half, after my dc is in college. He is not worth it.

Will you also give up all that money? Good for you to follow your heart!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Troll!
This doesn’t make any sense!

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

That’s the point. I am a good “catch”.

Sure you are, sweetie.

The hedge fund guy's 2nd or 3rd mistress is likely 10x hotter than you. On a bad day.

Moreover, your husband's mistress (or law clerk he is nailing) is hotter as well, even with an allowance for your mileage.

Sometimes they are not hotter . . . at all. One of my very successful exes married a woman who is not physically attractive at all. Some rich guys are married to not very attractive women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I hooked up with an attractive guy at a party in college, but met my now-husband soon after, fell hard, and dropped the first guy.

My husband is handsome and wonderful and we have a happy life together. But... that first guy is still attractive.

And also the co-founder of Twitter.

Yes, a frat party hook-up = almost marriage. Darn...!