Lonely_Sojourner wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So I get looking elegant, classy, and sexy...

But aren't there times you also want to look like a porn star?

My preference is a classy/elegant look and "act" like a porn star (at times...)

Anonymous wrote:I’m very self conscious about being naked (other then when in bed with the lights out) so I’m always throwing a robe or a towel on. Last night with the lights on my husband walked in on me while I was standing stark naked in the middle of our bedroom. I made a bee line to the closet but he blocked my way and things progressed very rapidly from there. I could have been wearing a thousand dollars worth of lingerie and not gotten a better response.

Anonymous wrote:For those who say you don't see the point.... do you not wear a bra and underwear most days? So instead of buying the plain nude bra, why not buy a pretty one? That's my mindset. Pretty much all of my bras and underwear are "pretty" at the least. Even my nude bras have lace or some see through mesh... something. Never a plain bra. It feels pretty good wearing something cute or sexy under my clothes everyday, even if no one sees it. And maybe your partner only sees it for a few seconds, but if you're wearing it anyway, why not make those few seconds a bit enjoyable?

Anonymous wrote:Push ups are not sexy. It is a bunch of foam and padding. Plus you don't have much to "push up" not a dig, just what it is. Branch out and try something sexy while showcases what you naturally have

Anonymous wrote:I bought my DW lingerie once which was a mistake because she said it basically was a present for me. Fair point, so I said, OK, for my birthday, by yourself some hot lingerie you will wear to bed with me. I've asked for that for three straight years and she doesn't do it and always says she didn't think I was serious. She just isn't hot for me. We are 50s and have sex 5x/year or so

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Push ups are not sexy. It is a bunch of foam and padding. Plus you don't have much to "push up" not a dig, just what it is. Branch out and try something sexy while showcases what you naturally have

Wish my husband agreed with you but he’s not particularly interested in what I naturally have. He likes the cleavage even if it’s fake. C’est la vie.

Also, can someone explain to me what a balconette bra is?

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Anonymous wrote:I am returning to the dating scene after some years of marriage. Do men expect women to be wearing sexy lingerie if a good date leads to some intimacy?

Me again. I just ordered several sets of lingerie and other sexy accoutrements based on several of the recommendations here. Thank you for the suggestions previous posters. Now if only that attractive guy at the gym can work up the desire and/or courage to ask me out, I can put them to good use.

What did you get?

I will keep that a private surprise for the lucky man I form a connection with. He will not be disappointed.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Push ups are not sexy. It is a bunch of foam and padding. Plus you don't have much to "push up" not a dig, just what it is. Branch out and try something sexy while showcases what you naturally have

Wish my husband agreed with you but he’s not particularly interested in what I naturally have. He likes the cleavage even if it’s fake. C’est la vie.

Also, can someone explain to me what a balconette bra is?

Anonymous wrote:What about a corset? Is that sexy or going too bdsm?

Anonymous wrote:What about a corset? Is that sexy or going too bdsm?

Anonymous wrote:What about a corset? Is that sexy or going too bdsm?