How often do you have contact with your FWB?

Anonymous
I think mine is losing interest because we use to text every day but lately
I notice I am the one who always initiates texts and want to talk. We see each other once a week and the sex is great.

But maybe I should just leave it alone since I am not in this for the conversation.
Anonymous
Every few days but mine is long distance now. You shouldn't be talking to a fwb everyday. That's not how fwb typically works. You should stop seeing this guy because you're clearly into him more. Don't do this to yourself. Have respect for your needs/ body.
Anonymous
What makes him so good in the sack? Can you find someone else as good who has more interest in you?
Anonymous
We see each other every week or two and only text to set up the time to meet. We are friends, not buddies, and the relationship is mostly physical. If the sex wasn't great we wouldn't be together.
Anonymous
OP. We talk about what we are going to do when we meet mostly not anything deep. Thanks for letting me know that most FWB don’t talk every day. We like each other well enough for sex. We are both single and he is not someone I’ll have a LTR with for many reasons.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:OP. We talk about what we are going to do when we meet mostly not anything deep. Thanks for letting me know that most FWB don’t talk every day. We like each other well enough for sex. We are both single and he is not someone I’ll have a LTR with for many reasons.



well, something goes deep when you two see each other.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP. We talk about what we are going to do when we meet mostly not anything deep. Thanks for letting me know that most FWB don’t talk every day. We like each other well enough for sex. We are both single and he is not someone I’ll have a LTR with for many reasons.



well, something goes deep when you two see each other.


That’s the whole point, isn’t it. LOL! He’s been very busy with a big project he tells me but the anticipation is part of the fun.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP. We talk about what we are going to do when we meet mostly not anything deep. Thanks for letting me know that most FWB don’t talk every day. We like each other well enough for sex. We are both single and he is not someone I’ll have a LTR with for many reasons.



well, something goes deep when you two see each other.


Hopefully he gets in there deep! Maybe that’s why the OP likes him!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:We see each other every week or two and only text to set up the time to meet. We are friends, not buddies, and the relationship is mostly physical. If the sex wasn't great we wouldn't be together.


Do you kiss when you’re getting it on?
Anonymous
Female here, I need a fwb. Not sure how to go about getting one...
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:What makes him so good in the sack? Can you find someone else as good who has more interest in you?


OP. He is hot, handsome, interesting, and a lot younger. We have great sexual chemistry, just ridiculous. I am planning on enjoying the ride. No future for us which makes it all the more urgent to enjoy the now. I tried to break it off several times in the beginning but he got me back so I know he values the sex at least as do I.
Henri
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Anonymous wrote:Female here, I need a fwb. Not sure how to go about getting one...


Just setup an dcum account and you will be flooded with PMs.
Anonymous
Did this start off as a friendship between the two of you which evolved into a sexual FWB relationship? Or is this a guy that you got together with because you were attracted to him.

Were you in the habit of texting him to talk to him before this FWB arrangement happened?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Did this start off as a friendship between the two of you which evolved into a sexual FWB relationship? Or is this a guy that you got together with because you were attracted to him.

Were you in the habit of texting him to talk to him before this FWB arrangement happened?


We were never friends and met through a dating app. I am divorced with a child and he is single, never married and I was very specific that I was looking for a FWB not a LTR. I stay over his place one night a week and met some of his friends. He has not met any of mine or my child and I plan on keeping it that way. I guess I cannot blame him for wanting more distance and keeping our relationship more FWB and less like dating which as I am writing this sounds like what it is turning into.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Did this start off as a friendship between the two of you which evolved into a sexual FWB relationship? Or is this a guy that you got together with because you were attracted to him.

Were you in the habit of texting him to talk to him before this FWB arrangement happened?


We were never friends and met through a dating app. I am divorced with a child and he is single, never married and I was very specific that I was looking for a FWB not a LTR. I stay over his place one night a week and met some of his friends. He has not met any of mine or my child and I plan on keeping it that way. I guess I cannot blame him for wanting more distance and keeping our relationship more FWB and less like dating which as I am writing this sounds like what it is turning into.


You've been seeing him once a week with no strings attached. Not sure how old this guy is but if he is free to look elsewhere during the rest of the week, he probably is.

If the spark between you has started to fizzle, maybe stop texting him for awhile or even take a week or two off from him.
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