I think that would be truly, truly awesome. I would really appreciate it very much and I think that would be such a powerful video that would make a huge impact. Obviously, and I'm sure you mean nothing depicting the sex acts themselves, since this would be a video that hopefully people could really share on all platforms |
First of all, erotica comes in all different kinds. Obviously the highly misogynistic ones are inappropriate. But there's a ton of erotica written by women- and also, and this is important- with fictional women involved. I.e. you don't have to hire vulnerable, uneducated, impoverished young girls with a history of sexual abuse to act them out. Secondly plenty of people have a normal, healthy sex drive that does not involve getting turned on by the violence and degradation of others. If you don't- perhaps you've been watching too much porn. |
OP here and I completely agree. Young boys, within the gay porn genre, are often given the "female" role and subjected to humiliation, violence, etc. Absolutely awful |
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Ugh. A hobbyist "diagnosing" unfortunate women? Please don't. |
Guess you missed the sarcasm... |
Oh I got it, as well as your intent. Hence my response |
Sounds like she is pretty familiar with the topic though. I think that would bring attention to how these men select for vulnerable women. We can't be silent about it anymore, because the whole "it's not doing any harm, let's not get involved" thing is doing a lot of harm to the most vulnerable women. |
I was raped and sexually abused as a child. That's why I was drawn to sickening stuff. |
I'm so very sorry for what you went through. Know that many of the people in these videos have gone through the same and are essentially acting out their victimization for others' profit. I'm really happy that you are moving past that and recognizing the patterns. Kudos to you. Sending you love and light and happiness |
Who are you trying to help here? |
I don't know: what is a "hobbyist" in this context? I have many years of experience teaching high school students, so I have worked with a plethora of special needs in the approximate age group ("Casting Couch" likes the "only 18"-ish category). I do have an M. Ed., though I'm not an expert in Special Ed, only a teacher who has seen and worked with many, many kids with learning disabilities. I'm pretty good at recognizing learning disabilities, and I've learned a lot working with counselors and IEP planning, etc. over the years. So am I a "hobbyist"? Maybe. I don't have a doctorate. I'm not a psychiatrist. I guess if I ever did a project like this, it would be a hobby project, probably something I did in the summer. I do see that, for my editorial to be considered reliable and credible, I'd have to involve psychiatrists, special ed...specialists, and probably a bunch of people experienced working in the porn industry. So, yeah, a true documentary would be beyond my scope, but I think it would be a good blog. I don't claim to be an expert, but if such a blog drew the right attention to the issue, that would be good, right? Because I am 100% sure most of the girls I saw speaking at length had diagnosable learning disabilities or other conditions. And no, I'm not talking about the actual sex acts. I actually just spent an hour or so looking at more porn for "interview" type scenarios in which girls were speaking, both as individuals and interacting with others. The most disturbing clip was the one I watched through to the end; I'm pretty sure the girl was also hearing impaired. The comments under the videos are disgusting. I do think any male teacher who takes pleasure in viewing some of the more obviously disabled girls should be imprisoned: that is how obvious the issues are/should be. |
Who are YOU trying to help? |
Agreed. And sadly- and i don't watch this stuff, because it's too disturbing- but from what I have seen, often a woman's "disabilities" or hardships will be labelled. As in "deaf girls gets ****ed hard", and of course at lot of racist stuff where black or latino women are "humiliated" or "destroyed." White women, too, of course. But any perceived difficulty or hardship a woman may have is actually seized upon and used against them. And i agree with you that it's absolutely horrifying to think a number of men find this arousing and not objectionable, and this thread is proof. I totally agree with you that the women involved probably have learning disabilities. Most of them suffered from sexual abuse, we know that based off of statistics. The learning disabilities thing adds another level of true sickness and hatred for women to the mix. I think this is a great idea, and I don't think you would need to get permission or psychologists to necessarily carry it out. Many of the compilations I see highlighting what's going on in porn is made by everyday people (mostly women). If you want, i have some friends high up within the feminist community who are fighting against porn- I could message some of them and throw out your idea out there, and ask them if they think you need to have the outside input or not. It very well might be something you could do on your own, and you seem like someone with experience in the field. I think it could be really impactful. |
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