Some real normal women here fantasize about being raped.
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Fifty Shades? There's a lot of erotica written with dubious consent. In prior years, some romance novels were straight rape fantasies. Women like to read about these, fantasize about them, then go back to their normal lives. I'm not going to throw stones St men who do the same thing. |
![]() It's not abuse if it's consensual. Amazing how words like "rape" and "abuse" can be twisted to the detriment of people who've actually had those experiences. A forceful and violent sex novel like 50 shades is celebrated, but making a video of a girl who comes into a room and agrees to have sex on camera for $$ is now "rape". |
Pornography is a problem. I agree. But let's stop victimizing these "liberated" women who are just doing what they want, when they want, who they want. Because that is how they see it. Porn actors don't see themselves as victims, and you are being extremely patronizing and misogynistic to force that label on them. |
Pornography empowers women.
They are using their sexuality as an earning tool. This is the ultimate manifestation of liberation. To take the construct of historic oppression and literally turn it 180 degrees into working in their favor, making a living at it. Porn is beautiful. |
Yeah, no. Nice try. |
Just because you are paid for it does not make it liberating. The VAST majority of women would not be making porn or prostituting themselves if there was another way to earn a living. Their circumstances led them to this life. I doubt any individual chooses it as a career path. |
There are moderated online forums where you can post a link to a particular adult clip and politely ask the members of the forum to point you in the direction of some of her other work and they will share with you any info they may have.
This is only to prove the point of a particular girl being an actress acting out roles on various fetish websites. Many of these actresses have fans all over the world. |
Shocking news flash- these videos are crafted to look real, because that is what sells. The women in the videos featured in this article know what they are getting into, are paid for it, and have plenty of "prep time" before filming to change their minds.
Here's a snippet of an interview with one of the actresses: "The whole thing is scripted," she says. "I knew going in there it was for sex. I knew what I was doing -- I knew I was getting paid." She says she was paid $2,000 for the scene with Whitaker, despite his claims that he never gives the girls in his videos a dime. Human trafficking is horrible. Rape is horrible. Let's not dilute those atrocities by equating them with the experiences of women who are making well informed choices, whether those choices are palatable to us or not. |
It is well-established that boundaries are routinely crossed once filming has begun. The "actors" don't stop when a woman says no, screams in pain, starts crying. If you're a woman alone in a room full of men who's objective it is to exploit you, the five hundred dollars you're making won't save you, nor does it protect you from these men's predatory natures. |
It is equally "well established" that they have safe words. On film and in private, these scenes are designed to appear real. Screaming, crying, saying no are all a part of the scene. If the actor/actress wants to stop things there is a safe word. |
+ a million |
It isn't just girls. A gay colleague tells me the most popular gay porn involves boys just over 18, and extreme sex. And BDSM has long been extremely popular in that community. |
These women are also making bad choices. |
indeed. and they are making those bad choices of their own volition. can't legislate against being stupid (though I wish we could) |