Would you let your DH go on a solo vacation to Thailand?

Anonymous
It wouldn't be an issue for us. My DH and I have been married almost 30 years. We have never taken a vacation alone. We are always together. I know that is probably shocking to most women on dcum, but that's just how we are. We enjoy spending time with each other.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I go on such vacations. A blast of debauchery. If you don't want your DH to sleep around, don't let him go. There is little chance he won't partake if he's there alone.


Why do you go to Thailand for this? Why not the us? Is it because they're minors?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I go on such vacations. A blast of debauchery. If you don't want your DH to sleep around, don't let him go. There is little chance he won't partake if he's there alone.


Why do you go to Thailand for this? Why not the us? Is it because they're minors?


Do you know anything about Thailand? Yeah, it's beautiful, very tourist friendly and a great vacation spot but there's a huge sex trade. The closest place in the US like it is Vegas but that's a distant 2nd - and Thailand is a LOT cheaper.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:This whole thread reminds me of a golf vacation that my DH and his buddies took to the DR a few years back.

We both have always taken vacations away from each other. All my girlfriends talked about the beautiful women and the sex trade there. They told me that him going was not the issue - that him WANTING to go was the issue. When I mentioned it, DH showed me that the resort they were going to had one of the best golf courses in the world and he is crazy about golf. I was not hearing that and we argued for days. Finally, I realized that I was in no position to give "permission" to a grown man. To my knowledge, he had never betrayed me. Also, knowing how he feels about golf, I did not want to be the one to prevent him from playing a bucket list course. So...I gave him stern "behave or get beheaded" warning and sent him on his way. He liked it so much that WE went back for our next couples trip.

Now, I do not know much about Thailand although I have been to Vietnam, but I have heard rumors about the sex trade and have heard how the government is trying to crack down on foreign nationals who come there for sex tourism. But SE Asia is beautiful and the culture is unforgettable. So I would ask a lot of questions but I would likely go along with it.


My cousin is 29 years old, and he went to a fancy resort in thailand to play golf with his boss. All the employees at the resort are beautiful women who wear only bikinis. Um yeah, that's a brothel. I didn't ask details, but you'd have to be retard to think it's not.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This whole thread reminds me of a golf vacation that my DH and his buddies took to the DR a few years back.

We both have always taken vacations away from each other. All my girlfriends talked about the beautiful women and the sex trade there. They told me that him going was not the issue - that him WANTING to go was the issue. When I mentioned it, DH showed me that the resort they were going to had one of the best golf courses in the world and he is crazy about golf. I was not hearing that and we argued for days. Finally, I realized that I was in no position to give "permission" to a grown man. To my knowledge, he had never betrayed me. Also, knowing how he feels about golf, I did not want to be the one to prevent him from playing a bucket list course. So...I gave him stern "behave or get beheaded" warning and sent him on his way. He liked it so much that WE went back for our next couples trip.

Now, I do not know much about Thailand although I have been to Vietnam, but I have heard rumors about the sex trade and have heard how the government is trying to crack down on foreign nationals who come there for sex tourism. But SE Asia is beautiful and the culture is unforgettable. So I would ask a lot of questions but I would likely go along with it.


My cousin is 29 years old, and he went to a fancy resort in thailand to play golf with his boss. All the employees at the resort are beautiful women who wear only bikinis. Um yeah, that's a brothel. I didn't ask details, but you'd have to be retard to think it's not.


Hard to take your post seriously when you throw that word around
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I go on such vacations. A blast of debauchery. If you don't want your DH to sleep around, don't let him go. There is little chance he won't partake if he's there alone.


Why do you go to Thailand for this? Why not the us? Is it because they're minors?


Do you know anything about Thailand? Yeah, it's beautiful, very tourist friendly and a great vacation spot but there's a huge sex trade. The closest place in the US like it is Vegas but that's a distant 2nd - and Thailand is a LOT cheaper.


You're trash.
Anonymous
The issue is not taking a vacation alone -- both DW and I do that once a year. The issue is where you go. First, we do not spent 1000's on the the trip. My trip is usually to spring training for baseball. DW will do a girls weekend at the beach.

I did go to Thailand alone -- but for work -- in Jan 2005. Mostly spent time meeting with gov't officials. One of them offered to show me where the girls were, but I politely declined.

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This whole thread reminds me of a golf vacation that my DH and his buddies took to the DR a few years back.

We both have always taken vacations away from each other. All my girlfriends talked about the beautiful women and the sex trade there. They told me that him going was not the issue - that him WANTING to go was the issue. When I mentioned it, DH showed me that the resort they were going to had one of the best golf courses in the world and he is crazy about golf. I was not hearing that and we argued for days. Finally, I realized that I was in no position to give "permission" to a grown man. To my knowledge, he had never betrayed me. Also, knowing how he feels about golf, I did not want to be the one to prevent him from playing a bucket list course. So...I gave him stern "behave or get beheaded" warning and sent him on his way. He liked it so much that WE went back for our next couples trip.

Now, I do not know much about Thailand although I have been to Vietnam, but I have heard rumors about the sex trade and have heard how the government is trying to crack down on foreign nationals who come there for sex tourism. But SE Asia is beautiful and the culture is unforgettable. So I would ask a lot of questions but I would likely go along with it.


My cousin is 29 years old, and he went to a fancy resort in thailand to play golf with his boss. All the employees at the resort are beautiful women who wear only bikinis. Um yeah, that's a brothel. I didn't ask details, but you'd have to be retard to think it's not.


Hard to take your post seriously when you throw that word around


Bikini?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Sorry, but I immediately judge any man who has gone to Thailand on a solo 'vacation'


+1. I would be offended if he thought this worth asking about.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This whole thread reminds me of a golf vacation that my DH and his buddies took to the DR a few years back.

We both have always taken vacations away from each other. All my girlfriends talked about the beautiful women and the sex trade there. They told me that him going was not the issue - that him WANTING to go was the issue. When I mentioned it, DH showed me that the resort they were going to had one of the best golf courses in the world and he is crazy about golf. I was not hearing that and we argued for days. Finally, I realized that I was in no position to give "permission" to a grown man. To my knowledge, he had never betrayed me. Also, knowing how he feels about golf, I did not want to be the one to prevent him from playing a bucket list course. So...I gave him stern "behave or get beheaded" warning and sent him on his way. He liked it so much that WE went back for our next couples trip.

Now, I do not know much about Thailand although I have been to Vietnam, but I have heard rumors about the sex trade and have heard how the government is trying to crack down on foreign nationals who come there for sex tourism. But SE Asia is beautiful and the culture is unforgettable. So I would ask a lot of questions but I would likely go along with it.


My cousin is 29 years old, and he went to a fancy resort in thailand to play golf with his boss. All the employees at the resort are beautiful women who wear only bikinis. Um yeah, that's a brothel. I didn't ask details, but you'd have to be retard to think it's not.


Hard to take your post seriously when you throw that word around


Bikini?


R word
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This whole thread reminds me of a golf vacation that my DH and his buddies took to the DR a few years back.

We both have always taken vacations away from each other. All my girlfriends talked about the beautiful women and the sex trade there. They told me that him going was not the issue - that him WANTING to go was the issue. When I mentioned it, DH showed me that the resort they were going to had one of the best golf courses in the world and he is crazy about golf. I was not hearing that and we argued for days. Finally, I realized that I was in no position to give "permission" to a grown man. To my knowledge, he had never betrayed me. Also, knowing how he feels about golf, I did not want to be the one to prevent him from playing a bucket list course. So...I gave him stern "behave or get beheaded" warning and sent him on his way. He liked it so much that WE went back for our next couples trip.

Now, I do not know much about Thailand although I have been to Vietnam, but I have heard rumors about the sex trade and have heard how the government is trying to crack down on foreign nationals who come there for sex tourism. But SE Asia is beautiful and the culture is unforgettable. So I would ask a lot of questions but I would likely go along with it.


My cousin is 29 years old, and he went to a fancy resort in thailand to play golf with his boss. All the employees at the resort are beautiful women who wear only bikinis. Um yeah, that's a brothel. I didn't ask details, but you'd have to be retard to think it's not.


Hard to take your post seriously when you throw that word around



Bikini?


R word


+1
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I keep thinking he is partaking of the seedy sex industry there.


Also my immediate reaction.


Me too.


Me too... he isn't on the down low is he? Cause he could be exploring that over there too.
ZachF
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Anonymous wrote: You folks have just been blundered by the media that has focused on one scandalous area. Thailand. They don't focus on London. Or Paris. Or Rome. Or Florence. But the same shit happens there.
Or..DC?
Anonymous
ZachF wrote:
Anonymous wrote: You folks have just been blundered by the media that has focused on one scandalous area. Thailand. They don't focus on London. Or Paris. Or Rome. Or Florence. But the same shit happens there.
Or..DC?


Well, people screw others over all the time here. But you have to be a congressman for the sick stuff.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I keep thinking he is partaking of the seedy sex industry there.


Also my immediate reaction.


Me too.


Agreed. If my DH was going to Thailand, he'd better damn well take me! I want to go too!!!
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