Where do you meet men @ 35?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
This. Who ever asks (invites) the other should pay, male or female


Complete bullshit.


If you can't afford the game, you can't play!
Anonymous
Met my husband at a Meetup for an activity we both really enjoy. I was 34.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
If you can't afford the game, you can't play!


Oh no, I can afford it. I just spend as little as possible.
LoveLiveMusicDad
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OP - did you get want you want?
Anonymous
OP online is ideal if you're not looking for a huge emotional commitment and just want to get out and about a bit and restore your faith that there are reasonably decent people in the world.

Just go in with low expectations and don't try to hard to seek approval or validation. Good luck.
Anonymous
My two cents: don't date w a purpose, ie, meeting Mr Perfect. Date for fun. If all you seek is husband #2, or #3, etc., well, many men will want to avoid that. At least initially. Keep things casual.
Anonymous
What online site is best? Looking to date, open to finding a relationship?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:My two cents: don't date w a purpose, ie, meeting Mr Perfect. Date for fun. If all you seek is husband #2, or #3, etc., well, many men will want to avoid that. At least initially. Keep things casual.


This was exactly how I met my BF when I was 34 (still together at 36).
Anonymous
But where are the single guys 35-45? Most seem to be married and it is hard to figure out which are available.
Anonymous
OP here, so I signed up for a couple of sites...what are the good ones?

there are great looking, nice 35 YO men, I have not seen any of them online they are all happily married aren't they....
Anonymous
LoveLiveMusicDad wrote:

And when you do get talking to men, be interested, not interesting.


OMFG, you actually wrote that. I... I can't. I've been sucked into a time vortex of some kind.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:OP here, so I signed up for a couple of sites...what are the good ones?

there are great looking, nice 35 YO men, I have not seen any of them online they are all happily married aren't they....

I am not sure but I think everyone is on OKCupid and Tinder.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Where you work is the best place to meet people.


Sure if you want to be charged with harassment and then fired.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote: I'm not really interested in a lifelong commitment again for a while anyways


"Again"? You have NEVER HAD a lifelong commitment.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote: I'm not really interested in a lifelong commitment again for a while anyways


"Again"? You have NEVER HAD a lifelong commitment.


Lol, excellent point! I tried though, some things are better left unfinished
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