Where do you meet men @ 35?

[Anonymous]

I was your age when divorced. My friend set me up with so many people! I ended up meeting and marrying The One who was a friend of a Helen's but we never would have met otherwise!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
A friend always ends up doing something interesting with her dates - sailing, watching a play, pottery etc. She never just meets for dinner/bar etc on the first date. This allows her not to waste her time because she still gets to enjoy the activity/outing aspect of the date, even if the company is a bust.

Yeah, who doesn't love getting free shit out of dating?

Yaaas! When I single, I saved so much on my grocery bill. Dinner was always taken care of at the latest hot restaurant. I'm writing this now as I'm eating my kids' lunch leftovers, waiting for pizza guy to come. Sigh. Have fun dating and being single!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
A friend always ends up doing something interesting with her dates - sailing, watching a play, pottery etc. She never just meets for dinner/bar etc on the first date. This allows her not to waste her time because she still gets to enjoy the activity/outing aspect of the date, even if the company is a bust.

Yeah, who doesn't love getting free shit out of dating?

Yaaas! When I single, I saved so much on my grocery bill. Dinner was always taken care of at the latest hot restaurant. I'm writing this now as I'm eating my kids' lunch leftovers, waiting for pizza guy to come. Sigh. Have fun dating and being single!

[Anonymous]

Where you work is the best place to meet people.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Go to church. Take group tennis/sailing lessons. Volunteer at something that provides exposure to other people. And let your friends know you are on the prowl. Maybe they know someone....

+1 I met my husband at a church I specifically joined because at my church in Georgetown, all the men were married or gay!

[Anonymous]

The day room after jello, but before shuffleboard.

:wink

[Anonymous]

I'm 35 and met my boyfriend of almost a year on Tinder. Online is how people meet these days...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Meetup. And I'd find an activity based one rather than one for 'singles', those aren't so hot.

There are some meetup's (at least in DC) that have age ranges on them, the OP should look for those, in addition to your suggestion about specific activities (hiking for example).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Go to church. Take group tennis/sailing lessons. Volunteer at something that provides exposure to other people. And let your friends know you are on the prowl. Maybe they know someone....

+1 I met my husband at a church I specifically joined because at my church in Georgetown, all the men were married or gay!

Which church? Mine is the same way, lol.

[Anonymous]

Why are these questions asked when any woman can go online and find 50 available guys in two hours if it even takes that long? What I would do is take golf lessons. Its exercise and social and mostly men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Where you work is the best place to meet people.

-1

When I divorced at 33, I worked exclusively with women, gay men, and new dads. No.

I met my DH on OKC 5 years ago.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
Yaaas! When I single, I saved so much on my grocery bill. Dinner was always taken care of at the latest hot restaurant. I'm writing this now as I'm eating my kids' lunch leftovers, waiting for pizza guy to come. Sigh. Have fun dating and being single!

I was being very sarcastic, but thanks for proving my point. Men should NEVER spend more than $40 on a date.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Yaaas! When I single, I saved so much on my grocery bill. Dinner was always taken care of at the latest hot restaurant. I'm writing this now as I'm eating my kids' lunch leftovers, waiting for pizza guy to come. Sigh. Have fun dating and being single!

I was being very sarcastic, but thanks for proving my point. Men should NEVER spend more than $40 on a date.

All first dates should be Dutch. Even if it is just a cup of coffee.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The day room after jello, but before shuffleboard.

:wink

[Anonymous]

Join a gym and start spending time there.