What is your "what the hell was I thinking" relationship story?

Anonymous
Here is mine, I love smart men, but they tend to be mean. I was dating a Nuclear Engineer (yummy, so I thought) he wasn't that nice, only if he was having his way, not that affectionate, not that great in bed even though he had plenty of equipment. I moved to another state with him after we both finished school. He made more than me but made me share 1/2 for all expenses. Did some stupid things like starting a savings account with him(got my money back later) before even being engaged. Ultimately when I got sick and he showed up at the hospital talking about how stressed out he was and couldn't stay long cause he had to work out, I realized, while intubated, that it was time for me to go. He won a trip to England just before I was about to leave. Decided I deserved that trip and put off my leaving for that trip of which I enjoyed to no end. Eventually told him I was leaving and going back to our original state. This is after being with him for 6 yrs. Asked him the night before where did he think this relationship was going and did he ever have any thoughts of marrying me. He didn't. I left and never looked back. He on the other hand continued to pop up unannounced and uninvited for years afterward. What was I thinking...
TwistdMike
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Anonymous wrote:Here is mine, I love smart men, but they tend to be mean. I was dating a Nuclear Engineer (yummy, so I thought) he wasn't that nice, only if he was having his way, not that affectionate, not that great in bed even though he had plenty of equipment. I moved to another state with him after we both finished school. He made more than me but made me share 1/2 for all expenses. Did some stupid things like starting a savings account with him(got my money back later) before even being engaged. Ultimately when I got sick and he showed up at the hospital talking about how stressed out he was and couldn't stay long cause he had to work out, I realized, while intubated, that it was time for me to go. He won a trip to England just before I was about to leave. Decided I deserved that trip and put off my leaving for that trip of which I enjoyed to no end. Eventually told him I was leaving and going back to our original state. This is after being with him for 6 yrs. Asked him the night before where did he think this relationship was going and did he ever have any thoughts of marrying me. He didn't. I left and never looked back. He on the other hand continued to pop up unannounced and uninvited for years afterward. What was I thinking...


Hard to find an engineer with a good personality... Few and far between
Anonymous
I don't remember exactly when this was, actually, but I think it was more or less the summer between high school and college. Met some guy online. This was long before anyone met anyone online. Early 90s. Anyhow, we used to make out in room, but he lived in the basement of his parents' house. His was mid-20s, I think. One day he says to me that he wants to do something fun, so he blindfolds me, and I get into his Suburban and he drives me somewhere. I hear something like a garage door and he's walking me into a space and then he ties me to something like a ladder. He proceeds to kiss me and feel me up for a while, but nothing else, and then he unties me, walks me to the Surburban and we drive back to his basement. I later find out that we went to his storage unit. Where he kept his comic books.

What the hell was I thinking?!

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I don't remember exactly when this was, actually, but I think it was more or less the summer between high school and college. Met some guy online. This was long before anyone met anyone online. Early 90s. Anyhow, we used to make out in room, but he lived in the basement of his parents' house. His was mid-20s, I think. One day he says to me that he wants to do something fun, so he blindfolds me, and I get into his Suburban and he drives me somewhere. I hear something like a garage door and he's walking me into a space and then he ties me to something like a ladder. He proceeds to kiss me and feel me up for a while, but nothing else, and then he unties me, walks me to the Surburban and we drive back to his basement. I later find out that we went to his storage unit. Where he kept his comic books.

What the hell was I thinking?!



Thank you. This is my favorite.
Anonymous
Dated a guy who for about a year who, on the first night we met, had sex with me while I was passing out.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I don't remember exactly when this was, actually, but I think it was more or less the summer between high school and college. Met some guy online. This was long before anyone met anyone online. Early 90s. Anyhow, we used to make out in room, but he lived in the basement of his parents' house. His was mid-20s, I think. One day he says to me that he wants to do something fun, so he blindfolds me, and I get into his Suburban and he drives me somewhere. I hear something like a garage door and he's walking me into a space and then he ties me to something like a ladder. He proceeds to kiss me and feel me up for a while, but nothing else, and then he unties me, walks me to the Surburban and we drive back to his basement. I later find out that we went to his storage unit. Where he kept his comic books.

What the hell was I thinking?!


What, he's supposed to let you see where exactly he keeps his Spider-Man #1? Of course he blindfolded you!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:At 30 dated a guy for almost 2 years who said after sex every.single.time "I'm sorry"

What was I thinking!?!


LOL. Was he terrible or something?
Anonymous
I don't do it, as a guy I move on. I'm either into someone else and focus in her. If she dumps me why would I remain friends? So I can hear about the good dicking her new man gives her? Fuck that noise.
Anonymous
TwistdMike wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Here is mine, I love smart men, but they tend to be mean. I was dating a Nuclear Engineer (yummy, so I thought) he wasn't that nice, only if he was having his way, not that affectionate, not that great in bed even though he had plenty of equipment. I moved to another state with him after we both finished school. He made more than me but made me share 1/2 for all expenses. Did some stupid things like starting a savings account with him(got my money back later) before even being engaged. Ultimately when I got sick and he showed up at the hospital talking about how stressed out he was and couldn't stay long cause he had to work out, I realized, while intubated, that it was time for me to go. He won a trip to England just before I was about to leave. Decided I deserved that trip and put off my leaving for that trip of which I enjoyed to no end. Eventually told him I was leaving and going back to our original state. This is after being with him for 6 yrs. Asked him the night before where did he think this relationship was going and did he ever have any thoughts of marrying me. He didn't. I left and never looked back. He on the other hand continued to pop up unannounced and uninvited for years afterward. What was I thinking...


Hard to find an engineer with a good personality... Few and far between



No kidding! My first one was a aeronautical one and made good money. Personality of a snail and ZERO common sense...that's what drove me crazy and to divorce. His family was very rich, we lived in Kobe and traveled a lot to Japan. I did have a lot of fun with him, but I was afraid at some point I would stab him in the head with a fork. He somehow invoked that emotion in me, lol.
Anonymous
I unknowingly married a skank. Once a skank will always be a skank.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I unknowingly married a skank. Once a skank will always be a skank.


Sorry, hun.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I don't remember exactly when this was, actually, but I think it was more or less the summer between high school and college. Met some guy online. This was long before anyone met anyone online. Early 90s. Anyhow, we used to make out in room, but he lived in the basement of his parents' house. His was mid-20s, I think. One day he says to me that he wants to do something fun, so he blindfolds me, and I get into his Suburban and he drives me somewhere. I hear something like a garage door and he's walking me into a space and then he ties me to something like a ladder. He proceeds to kiss me and feel me up for a while, but nothing else, and then he unties me, walks me to the Surburban and we drive back to his basement. I later find out that we went to his storage unit. Where he kept his comic books.

What the hell was I thinking?!



You are lucky to be alive today.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:At 30 dated a guy for almost 2 years who said after sex every.single.time "I'm sorry"

What was I thinking!?!


LOL. Was he terrible or something?


He was, but that's not why he said I'm sorry. His parents made him feel guilty whenever he was happy or found pleasure doing something. So just enjoying things was near impossible for him. There was a specific sex act that I loved doing, that he loved too. But he would do it very often because he didn't want to get used to doing it (and enjoy it) only for me to one day stop doing it. Drove me insane because I really love doing it. And 8 years with DH, we do it every time we have sex.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Are you high?

bwahhahaha
Anonymous
Was engaged to a man who made me kick my mother out of our home because he didn't want me to see her. Isolated me. Cut me off from family and friends. We lived every two years. He resented the fact that I was working, because I needed to because he wasn't earnings enough for me to stay home. Verbally abusive. Extremely manipulative.

Thank God I left that mess!
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