Getting pregnant to keep a man

Anonymous
Why is a ceremony so important to your friend?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Why is a ceremony so important to your friend?

She comes from a conservative community.
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It's like a car crash, nobody even wins!
Anonymous
I now know multiple people who play this game, and I find it disgusting.
Anonymous
It did cross my mind and actually went off the pill for 2 months in the hopes that it would happen. During that time however I realized he wasnt the man I wanted to be with for the rest of my life and luckily I never did end up conceiving with him.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:That doesn't guarantee anything, just look at "Teen Mom" on MTV.


Well it guarantees about 18 years of child support payments.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Men also purposely impregnate Gfs and wives to keep them from leaving.


Complete garbage.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I know a woman who did to keep her husband she was separated from. He was cheating all of the time. She wanted him to move back home and thought a baby would fix their marriage. He moved back home but the cheating didn't stop. Now she's sticks at home with a screaming baby and a husband who doesn't like her.


Serves her right.
Anonymous
If she is lying to the guy about not using birth control that is very, very wrong.

But if the couple plays Russian Roulette at times and/or is not as careful as they could be...babies happen. Hopefully they are in a place in there lives, and in their relationship with each other, where a pregnancy will be a happy surprise for both of them...
Anonymous
So actually she's not getting pregnant to "keep" him.
She's getting pregnant to coerce him into having a ceremony.
Just dumb.
Anonymous
God, I'm 6 months pregnant right now (DH was in on this plan BTW), and I would prefer that he and all people leave me alone - I feel cranky and I can't see my feet, and I'm whiny. Isn't this sort of the opposite of "what men want"?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:So actually she's not getting pregnant to "keep" him.
She's getting pregnant to coerce him into having a ceremony.
Just dumb.


Yep. I dunno...just gives me the wrong feeling.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I can't believe women actually do this!! One of my friends just started having unprotected sex with her long term boyfriend. He has been hesitant to go through a wedding with her but always talks about having children. So now they're having unprotected sex. Now she says she just wants a quickie ceremony after she's knocked up.

Anyone else has done this? Does it end well?


Well what girl doesn't dream of having a quickie ceremony? And all she has to do is have a baby!

Anonymous
No wonder why there are so many men and women that are bitter and miserable by their 40s!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:My SIL did this to bag my BIL. It worked and they have what one could call a good marriage. She is just one of those people who gets what she wants, other people dammed.

so your siblings wife and husband got pregnant together? I can hear hillbilly music playing in the background
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