Women, please explain what she means by this email

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[Post New]12/15/2014 13:54
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Because she thinks you are bordering on an emotional affair. She doesn't want to be your therapist, and you've made it clear that you are just using her as a crutch. So she's getting nothing from the relationship and kicked you to the curb.


Bingo.


+1

Men are so dumb.
[Post New]12/15/2014 13:55
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Google Emotional Affair. Also stop using people.

This.


There is no such thing as an emotional affair.
[Post New]12/15/2014 13:58
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Because she thinks you are bordering on an emotional affair. She doesn't want to be your therapist, and you've made it clear that you are just using her as a crutch. So she's getting nothing from the relationship and kicked you to the curb.


Bingo.


+1

Men are so dumb.


Yup. PP nailed it.
[Post New]12/15/2014 13:59
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Because she thinks you are bordering on an emotional affair. She doesn't want to be your therapist, and you've made it clear that you are just using her as a crutch. So she's getting nothing from the relationship and kicked you to the curb.


Bingo.


+1

Men are so dumb.


x2
[Post New]12/15/2014 13:59
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Because she thinks you are bordering on an emotional affair. She doesn't want to be your therapist, and you've made it clear that you are just using her as a crutch. So she's getting nothing from the relationship and kicked you to the curb.


Bingo.


+1

Men are so dumb.


x2


x3
[Post New]12/15/2014 14:32
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Google Emotional Affair. Also stop using people.

This.


There is no such thing as an emotional affair.


I disagree.
[Post New]12/15/2014 16:37
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MikeL
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Because she thinks you are bordering on an emotional affair. She doesn't want to be your therapist, and you've made it clear that you are just using her as a crutch. So she's getting nothing from the relationship and kicked you to the curb.


Bingo.


+1

Men are so dumb.


x2


x3

Jeez, you say it like it's a bad thing.
[Post New]12/15/2014 17:21
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Anonymous
She has a crush on you and knows you are unavailable. She is trying to be a good person. Let her go.
[Post New]12/15/2014 17:30
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:First of all I don't want judgement about right or wrong. I'm married and I've been good friends with a woman. We chat a lot online and she's a good emotional crutch. I've told her that I'm not sexually attracted to her and she's replied that same here and it's just "banter", even though we've occasionally flirted (nothing dirty) during our chatting.

So this morning I get a long email from her saying:

"I've done a lot of thinking this weekend and I'm uncomfortable with our conversations and friendship even though I really enjoy it at the time" Blah blah blah, "I see a lot of light and goodness in you and you need to work through things" blah blah blah, "If you need help with specific questions please email me other than that I'll see you around on the facebook wall".

I thought she knew we were "just friends"? Why this?


The parts in bold are wildly inappropriate. I'm glad I'm not married to someone like this.
[Post New]12/15/2014 17:34
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:You used this woman as an emotional crutch? Seems wildly inappropriate.

What do you need to "work through?" i.e. what exactly have you been confiding in her?
Yes, this language just jumped off the screen. OP, she may have feelings for you and decided it was better for her to break it off. Or she figured out that you were using her as an emotional crutch and she was tired of it. Doesn't sound like you had a relationship that went both ways. Sounds like you got more out of it than she did.
[Post New]12/15/2014 18:23
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Anonymous
Op here. Thanks for all the responses I know I shouldn't care but I actually felt "dumped" by my cyberbuddy. She then posted a quote on her wall: "anytime you encourage something, anytime you pray something, anytime you enjoy something you are telling the universe that you want to more more more. "- Abraham

I don't know what the heck that means.
[Post New]12/15/2014 18:25
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Op here. Thanks for all the responses I know I shouldn't care but I actually felt "dumped" by my cyberbuddy. She then posted a quote on her wall: "anytime you encourage something, anytime you pray something, anytime you enjoy something you are telling the universe that you want to more more more. "- Abraham

I don't know what the heck that means.

Yeah, how could a woman you don't even find attractive dare to leave YOU?! Leave her be. I'm sure you'll find another emotional crutch to flirt with soon enough.
[Post New]12/15/2014 18:26
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Op here. Thanks for all the responses I know I shouldn't care but I actually felt "dumped" by my cyberbuddy. She then posted a quote on her wall: "anytime you encourage something, anytime you pray something, anytime you enjoy something you are telling the universe that you want to more more more. "- Abraham

I don't know what the heck that means.



You seem dumb.
[Post New]12/15/2014 18:45
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Op here. Thanks for all the responses I know I shouldn't care but I actually felt "dumped" by my cyberbuddy. She then posted a quote on her wall: "anytime you encourage something, anytime you pray something, anytime you enjoy something you are telling the universe that you want to more more more. "- Abraham

I don't know what the heck that means.




You seem dumb.


+1 really dumb
[Post New]12/15/2014 18:52
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Op here. Thanks for all the responses I know I shouldn't care but I actually felt "dumped" by my cyberbuddy. She then posted a quote on her wall: "anytime you encourage something, anytime you pray something, anytime you enjoy something you are telling the universe that you want to more more more. "- Abraham

I don't know what the heck that means.


Who cares. She asked for space. Stop trying to decrypt her Facebook and go see what your wife is doing.
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