Women, please explain what she means by this email

[Anonymous]

I knew she was crazy before I read the 2nd email. If she really wanted to end your "friendship" she would have deleted you on FB that day. She mind fucked you and you fell for it. Now she has the upper hand and you're thinking of her, checking her FB etc. You should pay $ for some real help.

[Anonymous]

I'm back again. Why should I be afraid that she may tell my wife? I doubt that she will and even if she did it may be the spark for the divorce at worst or intense counseling at best.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP again. Today she sent me another email. She said that she "seems to always fall for unavailable men" and that she felt that I was "manipulating her to fall for me even though I had no intentions of giving her anything back". She said "I'm the light and you just want to be darkness and I can't keep being your light". Blah blah blah. And then she dropped the bombshell. "I hope I'm the first person you call when you do the right thing and decide to leave your wife. You deserve happiness". I just blocked her as a friend because she's crazy.

In other words, she was like a "teddy bear" to you. Weird role reversal there.

[Anonymous]

You are hopeless, OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP again. Today she sent me another email. She said that she "seems to always fall for unavailable men" and that she felt that I was "manipulating her to fall for me even though I had no intentions of giving her anything back". She said "I'm the light and you just want to be darkness and I can't keep being your light". Blah blah blah. And then she dropped the bombshell. "I hope I'm the first person you call when you do the right thing and decide to leave your wife. You deserve happiness". I just blocked her as a friend because she's crazy.

In other words, she was like a "teddy bear" to you. Weird role reversal there.

Teddy bear is correct. She was really a great confidant and I actually told her some things that were highly confidential but I just needed to discuss with someone or just get a Nother person's opinion. I'm going to miss that. maybe she got mad when I told her that my "type" was a woman who looked like my wife but had mother Theresa's attitude.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP again. Today she sent me another email. She said that she "seems to always fall for unavailable men" and that she felt that I was "manipulating her to fall for me even though I had no intentions of giving her anything back". She said "I'm the light and you just want to be darkness and I can't keep being your light". Blah blah blah. And then she dropped the bombshell. "I hope I'm the first person you call when you do the right thing and decide to leave your wife. You deserve happiness". I just blocked her as a friend because she's crazy.

In other words, she was like a "teddy bear" to you. Weird role reversal there.

Teddy bear is correct. She was really a great confidant and I actually told her some things that were highly confidential but I just needed to discuss with someone or just get a Nother person's opinion. I'm going to miss that. maybe she got mad when I told her that my "type" was a woman who looked like my wife but had mother Theresa's attitude.

Seriously, just stop posting. Your attitude is ridiculous and you sound like an ass.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP again. Today she sent me another email. She said that she "seems to always fall for unavailable men" and that she felt that I was "manipulating her to fall for me even though I had no intentions of giving her anything back". She said "I'm the light and you just want to be darkness and I can't keep being your light". Blah blah blah. And then she dropped the bombshell. "I hope I'm the first person you call when you do the right thing and decide to leave your wife. You deserve happiness". I just blocked her as a friend because she's crazy.

In other words, she was like a "teddy bear" to you. Weird role reversal there.

Teddy bear is correct. She was really a great confidant and I actually told her some things that were highly confidential but I just needed to discuss with someone or just get a Nother person's opinion. I'm going to miss that. maybe she got mad when I told her that my "type" was a woman who looked like my wife but had mother Theresa's attitude.

Seriously, just stop posting. Your attitude is ridiculous and you sound like an ass.

15:47 from yesterday here. OP is a lost cause; he will never see his own part in this drama.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP again. Today she sent me another email. She said that she "seems to always fall for unavailable men" and that she felt that I was "manipulating her to fall for me even though I had no intentions of giving her anything back". She said "I'm the light and you just want to be darkness and I can't keep being your light". Blah blah blah. And then she dropped the bombshell. "I hope I'm the first person you call when you do the right thing and decide to leave your wife. You deserve happiness". I just blocked her as a friend because she's crazy.

In other words, she was like a "teddy bear" to you. Weird role reversal there.

Teddy bear is correct. She was really a great confidant and I actually told her some things that were highly confidential but I just needed to discuss with someone or just get a Nother person's opinion. I'm going to miss that. maybe she got mad when I told her that my "type" was a woman who looked like my wife but had mother Theresa's attitude.

You've got to be fucking kidding me.

[Anonymous]

OP=obtuse person

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP again. Today she sent me another email. She said that she "seems to always fall for unavailable men" and that she felt that I was "manipulating her to fall for me even though I had no intentions of giving her anything back". She said "I'm the light and you just want to be darkness and I can't keep being your light". Blah blah blah. And then she dropped the bombshell. "I hope I'm the first person you call when you do the right thing and decide to leave your wife. You deserve happiness". I just blocked her as a friend because she's crazy.

In other words, she was like a "teddy bear" to you. Weird role reversal there.

Teddy bear is correct. She was really a great confidant and I actually told her some things that were highly confidential but I just needed to discuss with someone or just get a Nother person's opinion. I'm going to miss that. maybe she got mad when I told her that my "type" was a woman who looked like my wife but had mother Theresa's attitude.

You've got to be fucking kidding me.

Right? Flaming narcissist alert!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP again. Today she sent me another email. She said that she "seems to always fall for unavailable men" and that she felt that I was "manipulating her to fall for me even though I had no intentions of giving her anything back". She said "I'm the light and you just want to be darkness and I can't keep being your light". Blah blah blah. And then she dropped the bombshell. "I hope I'm the first person you call when you do the right thing and decide to leave your wife. You deserve happiness". I just blocked her as a friend because she's crazy.

Oh, man, you just really don't want to look at how you contributed to this situation, do you? Oblivious.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP again. Today she sent me another email. She said that she "seems to always fall for unavailable men" and that she felt that I was "manipulating her to fall for me even though I had no intentions of giving her anything back". She said "I'm the light and you just want to be darkness and I can't keep being your light". Blah blah blah. And then she dropped the bombshell. "I hope I'm the first person you call when you do the right thing and decide to leave your wife. You deserve happiness". I just blocked her as a friend because she's crazy.

And what does that make you, OP?

To be fair, I was honest from the get go. I considered her a friend, a good listener and made it known that I wasn't interested in anything sexual. We've talked about "types" and she knew very well she wasn't my type. Was I her type? Probably, I'm fairly attractive. Now she's sending me these emails like we were dating.

I hate these people who say one thing while at the same time giving off a different vibe. And then they wash their hands and say "but I never promised anything!"

Dude, you think you made yourself clear but obviously you gave her a different impression. Just because you didn't use words doesn't mean that you aren't responsible. Any grown up can make it clear in both word and action that they are not available. You said the words but you didn't follow up with the action.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP again. Today she sent me another email. She said that she "seems to always fall for unavailable men" and that she felt that I was "manipulating her to fall for me even though I had no intentions of giving her anything back". She said "I'm the light and you just want to be darkness and I can't keep being your light". Blah blah blah. And then she dropped the bombshell. "I hope I'm the first person you call when you do the right thing and decide to leave your wife. You deserve happiness". I just blocked her as a friend because she's crazy.

In other words, she was like a "teddy bear" to you. Weird role reversal there.

Teddy bear is correct. She was really a great confidant and I actually told her some things that were highly confidential but I just needed to discuss with someone or just get a Nother person's opinion. I'm going to miss that. maybe she got mad when I told her that my "type" was a woman who looked like my wife but had mother Theresa's attitude.

Oh. My. God. You're an idiot. Earth to OP: Telling a person something highly confidential is an act of intimacy! Which is how you implied that you were available after telling her you weren't. You're such a user, OP, and you can't even see it.

[Anonymous]

And just like that she returns. She sent an email overnight. Gmail time stamp says it was at 1:30am basically saying she hoped we could "be friends". I responded with just one word: "Sure". She replies with a long email expressing "anguish that I'm upset at her" etc etc. I didn't respond, just deleted it.

[Anonymous]

And now is your chance! She is ripe for the plucking... she is hot to trot.