Women, please explain what she means by this email

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here. Thanks for all the responses I know I shouldn't care but I actually felt "dumped" by my cyberbuddy. She then posted a quote on her wall: "anytime you encourage something, anytime you pray something, anytime you enjoy something you are telling the universe that you want to more more more. "- Abraham

I don't know what the heck that means.

You seem dumb.

+1

[Anonymous]

You seem pretty arrogant to me. First you used a woman as your emotional crutch, you made a point of telling her she's not attractive toyou, then you get annoyed when she politely tells you enough is enough, then you try and analyze her Facebook post because you assume it has something to do with you somehow. The problem here is you. You seem a little weird and not very bright.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like she is trying to avoid your friendship becoming an emotional affair. As a single woman who has male friends, some married, I can see myself sending an email like that if I thought a friendship had crossed a line or was on the way to doing so. She is probably wise to not spend emotions on you that would be better spent finding someone she can actually date.

I'd be more likely to word it without the "light and goodness" crap, though. that's kind of hippy-dippy.

[Anonymous]

OP again. Today she sent me another email. She said that she "seems to always fall for unavailable men" and that she felt that I was "manipulating her to fall for me even though I had no intentions of giving her anything back". She said "I'm the light and you just want to be darkness and I can't keep being your light". Blah blah blah. And then she dropped the bombshell. "I hope I'm the first person you call when you do the right thing and decide to leave your wife. You deserve happiness". I just blocked her as a friend because she's crazy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP again. Today she sent me another email. She said that she "seems to always fall for unavailable men" and that she felt that I was "manipulating her to fall for me even though I had no intentions of giving her anything back". She said "I'm the light and you just want to be darkness and I can't keep being your light". Blah blah blah. And then she dropped the bombshell. "I hope I'm the first person you call when you do the right thing and decide to leave your wife. You deserve happiness". I just blocked her as a friend because she's crazy.

And what does that make you, OP?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP again. Today she sent me another email. She said that she "seems to always fall for unavailable men" and that she felt that I was "manipulating her to fall for me even though I had no intentions of giving her anything back". She said "I'm the light and you just want to be darkness and I can't keep being your light". Blah blah blah. And then she dropped the bombshell. "I hope I'm the first person you call when you do the right thing and decide to leave your wife. You deserve happiness". I just blocked her as a friend because she's crazy.

And what does that make you, OP?

Yahtzee!

[Anonymous]

OP do you really not see how you are at least 50% responsible for what happened. I think you should stop contact with her because it's obviously not a healthy relationship. You probably should either start working on your marriage and realize how these kinds of "friendships" are not ok, or divorce your wife if you are miserable. What you are doing is certainly not ok.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP again. Today she sent me another email. She said that she "seems to always fall for unavailable men" and that she felt that I was "manipulating her to fall for me even though I had no intentions of giving her anything back". She said "I'm the light and you just want to be darkness and I can't keep being your light". Blah blah blah. And then she dropped the bombshell. "I hope I'm the first person you call when you do the right thing and decide to leave your wife. You deserve happiness". I just blocked her as a friend because she's crazy.

And what does that make you, OP?

To be fair, I was honest from the get go. I considered her a friend, a good listener and made it known that I wasn't interested in anything sexual. We've talked about "types" and she knew very well she wasn't my type. Was I her type? Probably, I'm fairly attractive. Now she's sending me these emails like we were dating.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP again. Today she sent me another email. She said that she "seems to always fall for unavailable men" and that she felt that I was "manipulating her to fall for me even though I had no intentions of giving her anything back". She said "I'm the light and you just want to be darkness and I can't keep being your light". Blah blah blah. And then she dropped the bombshell. "I hope I'm the first person you call when you do the right thing and decide to leave your wife. You deserve happiness". I just blocked her as a friend because she's crazy.

And what does that make you, OP?

To be fair, I was honest from the get go. I considered her a friend, a good listener and made it known that I wasn't interested in anything sexual. We've talked about "types" and she knew very well she wasn't my type. Was I her type? Probably, I'm fairly attractive. Now she's sending me these emails like we were dating.

Listen, OP, I'm saying this as a public service to you - you should stop posting now. Because wow, buddy - what you just wrote is so completely arrogant, and narcissistic, and demonstrates such an amazing lack of personal awareness, that it borders the unbelievable. Everyone deserves happiness - that much is true. But you are on an express train bound for a fiery, horrific karmic crash, and you will have no one to blame but yourself. Get off of DCUM, take a hard look in the mirror, and be better than this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP again. Today she sent me another email. She said that she "seems to always fall for unavailable men" and that she felt that I was "manipulating her to fall for me even though I had no intentions of giving her anything back". She said "I'm the light and you just want to be darkness and I can't keep being your light". Blah blah blah. And then she dropped the bombshell. "I hope I'm the first person you call when you do the right thing and decide to leave your wife. You deserve happiness". I just blocked her as a friend because she's crazy.

And what does that make you, OP?

To be fair, I was honest from the get go. I considered her a friend, a good listener and made it known that I wasn't interested in anything sexual. We've talked about "types" and she knew very well she wasn't my type. Was I her type? Probably, I'm fairly attractive. Now she's sending me these emails like we were dating.

Listen, OP, I'm saying this as a public service to you - you should stop posting now. Because wow, buddy - what you just wrote is so completely arrogant, and narcissistic, and demonstrates such an amazing lack of personal awareness, that it borders the unbelievable. Everyone deserves happiness - that much is true. But you are on an express train bound for a fiery, horrific karmic crash, and you will have no one to blame but yourself. Get off of DCUM, take a hard look in the mirror, and be better than this.

pp standing up and clapping.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP again. Today she sent me another email. She said that she "seems to always fall for unavailable men" and that she felt that I was "manipulating her to fall for me even though I had no intentions of giving her anything back". She said "I'm the light and you just want to be darkness and I can't keep being your light". Blah blah blah. And then she dropped the bombshell. "I hope I'm the first person you call when you do the right thing and decide to leave your wife. You deserve happiness". I just blocked her as a friend because she's crazy.

And what does that make you, OP?

To be fair, I was honest from the get go. I considered her a friend, a good listener and made it known that I wasn't interested in anything sexual. We've talked about "types" and she knew very well she wasn't my type. Was I her type? Probably, I'm fairly attractive. Now she's sending me these emails like we were dating. [/quote]

And now you've spent two days talking about her on a message board like you were dating. What your point? You might be prettier but it seems like you think about her as much as she thinks about you. You haven't won anything here.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP again. Today she sent me another email. She said that she "seems to always fall for unavailable men" and that she felt that I was "manipulating her to fall for me even though I had no intentions of giving her anything back". She said "I'm the light and you just want to be darkness and I can't keep being your light". Blah blah blah. And then she dropped the bombshell. "I hope I'm the first person you call when you do the right thing and decide to leave your wife. You deserve happiness". I just blocked her as a friend because she's crazy.

And what does that make you, OP?

To be fair, I was honest from the get go. I considered her a friend, a good listener and made it known that I wasn't interested in anything sexual. We've talked about "types" and she knew very well she wasn't my type. Was I her type? Probably, I'm fairly attractive. Now she's sending me these emails like we were dating.

Listen, OP, I'm saying this as a public service to you - you should stop posting now. Because wow, buddy - what you just wrote is so completely arrogant, and narcissistic, and demonstrates such an amazing lack of personal awareness, that it borders the unbelievable. Everyone deserves happiness - that much is true. But you are on an express train bound for a fiery, horrific karmic crash, and you will have no one to blame but yourself. Get off of DCUM, take a hard look in the mirror, and be better than this.

pp standing up and clapping.

Clapping here, too. And OP, as a practical matter, you need to tell your wife EVERYTHING and let her read EVERYTHING right now, because this woman will get in touch with her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP again. Today she sent me another email. She said that she "seems to always fall for unavailable men" and that she felt that I was "manipulating her to fall for me even though I had no intentions of giving her anything back". She said "I'm the light and you just want to be darkness and I can't keep being your light". Blah blah blah. And then she dropped the bombshell. "I hope I'm the first person you call when you do the right thing and decide to leave your wife. You deserve happiness". I just blocked her as a friend because she's crazy.

And what does that make you, OP?

To be fair, I was honest from the get go. I considered her a friend, a good listener and made it known that I wasn't interested in anything sexual. We've talked about "types" and she knew very well she wasn't my type. Was I her type? Probably, I'm fairly attractive. Now she's sending me these emails like we were dating.

Listen, OP, I'm saying this as a public service to you - you should stop posting now. Because wow, buddy - what you just wrote is so completely arrogant, and narcissistic, and demonstrates such an amazing lack of personal awareness, that it borders the unbelievable. Everyone deserves happiness - that much is true. But you are on an express train bound for a fiery, horrific karmic crash, and you will have no one to blame but yourself. Get off of DCUM, take a hard look in the mirror, and be better than this.

End thread. Could not have been stated better. 10 points, A+, 5 stars. OP, grow up.

[Anonymous]

Completely ignore her and you'll get an email within the week. Ignore that one and she will be e-stalking you within the month. Time to go ahead and come clean w the wife about this, especially if it is totally platonic on your side. Because shit is about to get real

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Completely ignore her and you'll get an email within the week. Ignore that one and she will be e-stalking you within the month. Time to go ahead and come clean w the wife about this, especially if it is totally platonic on your side. Because shit is about to get real

edit holy shit I posted this after just reading the OP and first couple of replies.