yes there is and thats why those male relatives can appeal to the State for support. Duh. |
Dear fellow Muslim brother, Assalamualeikum wa Rahmatullah wa barakatuhu You & I both know that Islam does not support Pedophilia or child molestation under any circumstances. We have both shared points, showing what the age of marriage used to be in the past, something history agrees with, but at the end of the day I have come to realize one thing, I can't keep arguing with islamophobes who are blinded by their hate of Islam, logic and reason is least likely to influence people like that. They have no idea of the love that 1.6 billion Muslims have for Allah and his messenger saw, so how can we blame them and hold them responsible for their ignorance? Sadly, they have not tasted the sweetness of Iman! |
please re-read the last paragraph. It is an excellent overview of why we are critical of Islam and and why Islam is fundamentally the problem. you said - when people are confronted with the truth, they often cover it up with disbelief - what does this mean? that you have the truth and everyone else covers it up? did God (or Mohammed) personally come to your house and deliver the truth? or are you reading something that another human being wrote and letting them be your god? this is nonsense for an adult person to say! you said - ridiculing Islam - posters are not ridiculing. I am scared by the terrible violence that Islam has been imposing on any other religion it comes into contact with. And because of the US and Western Europe history of tolerance and political correctness, we will do nothing to stop it until it requires a huge cost to stop. you said - us the believers, no amount of ridicule, fallacies, lies will move our faith to even an inch - yes we know this. Islam is about intolerance as practiced today. The leaders insist that the Koran is eternal, and must be simply accepted without question. In fact, for this group, the very act of questioning is blasphemous--a capital crime. It's hard to recall that Islamic civilization was once far ahead of Western civilization. Early in Islamic history Arab conquests took them into captured libraries full of Greek philosophy, science, mathematics and culture and Islamic intellectual life expanded suddenly and exponentially. Many seminal works the West claims today as its own originally arrived as translations from Arabic. The numbers we use today, "Arabic" (actually Indian) numerals came in on a tide of Arabic words like algebra and algorithm. Arab civilization in the 10th seemed to have a bright future. Then, in the 11th century Islam reversed course. The pendulum swung so far away from the rationalism of Greek philosophy it never came back. The linchpin of this change was over the alleged power of Allah. It became a theological fetish to ascribe Him flattering new dimensions of potency. Imaginative arguments were made inflate the Creator--always at the expense of the created. - Omnipotence. Far more God-powers. Even to the point of dismissing all natural law, all cause & effect Every event from the molecular to the cosmic becomes Allah's will. (God is Great!...and getting Greater!) - Onmiscience. He knows your fate and all future events. Failure & success, heaven or hell, happiness or misery--His choice, not yours. All entered into history by an Angel before you exist. (Divine determinism, Islamic style: only He is free.) - Unknowability. You can know nothing about Him or His motives. To attempt to discover or postulate Allah's nature becomes blasphemy--a capital crime. All His commandments are beyond human logic: arbitrary and absolute. Obedience is the bedrock source of morality, all law, all behavior. No modifications allowed. |
Read this to see how many Muslim countries and organization have already condemned ISIS: http://www.washingtonsblog.com/2014/08/muslims-condemn-isis.html But I agree with one point you made here - we need more MUSLIMS to take to the streets to protest ISIS too. I will certainly do my part and try to organize this at least here in DC. I absolutely resent your statement that Muslims do not belong to the human race. It is this type of hatred that you expressed right there in that statement that fosters animosity and provides the incentive for groups like ISIS to want to kill Americans. Temper your words and think hard before you post vile statements like this on a public forum because it is people like you, the extremists on both ends, that probably helped to give birth to groups like ISIS in the first place. Remember that the US is heavily involved in Iraq. Extremists like ISIS are not true practicing Muslims and absolutely do not represent Islam. But they are angry because of the heavy US presence on their soil. Muslims have been historically persecuted also. Muslims were killed in the Bosnian genocide of 1995. There seems to be a systematic genocide of Uighers being killed in China now. Muslims were killed in Cambodia. Muslims were killed and ousted from India also, and this is why Pakistan was born. After 9/11 Muslims in the US were attacked, even people who stood against the 9/11 attackers and even those who weren't even Muslim at all but simply resembled Muslims. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Persecution_of_Muslims |
Salaam Muslima, When I first joined this discussion, I truly thought it was an intellectual discourse. I truly thought the handful of people inquiring about Islam were interested in understanding Islam. They are not. I have answers their questions numerous times and, yet, it does not seem to be to their satisfaction. They are a dodging target. Their first accusation was that Muhammad was a pedophile. Then they take issue with Islam's inheritance laws. Then divorce laws are an injustice to women. Then it was testimony. Now it's custody. Nearly ever question has been answered except for the child custody one and that' s an easy to answer as well. I plan to explain that soon too. I'm beginning to realize that their antagonism is an expression of their fear about the spread of Islam. Islam is the fastest growing religion, not only in the world but also in the US. Moreover, it is growing in the US, not by immigration, but instead by conversion. They know this. They feel terribly threatened by this because they fear Muslims will take over the US and want to convert it to a Sharia state. They fear it will give birth to grops like ISIS. I wish I could reassure them that this will not happen. The beauty of America is that it is a multi religious, muli cultural land. Even if immigrants arrive here, clinging to their old customs and ways, by the second or third generation, American Muslims assimilate. They may not give up their religious principles completely but they learn the valuable lesson of tolerance of other religions and cultures. It gives birth to a new and better kind of Islam, an Islam free of cultural influences, and this is pure Islam. Regardless of the vile accusations they make against Prophet Muhammad, I still hold that Christians and Jews are my brethren. Christianity and Judaism are simply other avenues to the same God we worship. I condemn ISIS and will always condemn any extremist group that denies the right of any Christian or Jew to practice his faith freely. This is real Islam. It's very sad that rather than asking, "Why did Muhammad marry a girl so young?" or "Did Muhammad in fact marry a girl that young?" the word pedophile was used. It's just terribly insulting to the billions of Muslims that respect him so much. No one can learn about Islam just google searching and reading just one or two books or relying on Hollywood movies like "Not Without My Daughter." To learn about Islam they have to be willing to call a few Imams or scholars in the US such as Hamza Yusuf, Ahmad Sakr, Muhammad Joban, etc…Historians do not know Islam as well as an imam or scholar would. My own mother in law converted to Islam from Christianity over 40 yrs ago and she has never regretted her decision. She is of European descent. I am of mixed race. My children have very caucasian features and are not likely to be thought of as "Muslim" by other Americans. They will blend in American society almost completely, with the exception of their religion. This is the new American Muslim. They better get used to it. |
Right, your core belief that Islam is the problem is what is wrong with society and why this discussion is pointless, so I will end by saying this, " To you your religion, to me my religion". I don't have the energy to repeat the same things over and over. The very fact that you believe Muslims follow blindly their faith and are not allowed to question, seek the truth and gain knowledge shows that this discussion is sterile as you do not even understand the basics of Islam. The greatest enemy of knowledge is not ignorance, it is the illusion of knowledge. The first verse of the Quran that was revealed was not " Pray" or "Believe" or "Fast, go to hajj", it was "Read! Read in the name of thy Lord who created;[He] created the human being from blood clot. Read in the name of thy Lord who taught by the pen: [He] taught the human being what he did not know." (96: 1-5). There are around 750 verses in the Quran that encourage us to think about the universe that surrounds us and all that has been created within it and placed at our disposal.The Prophet saw made seeking knowledge an obligation upon every Muslim, and he explained that the superiority of the one who has knowledge over the one who merely worships is like the superiority of the moon over every other heavenly body. We are not supposed to close our eyes and live this life blindly following whatever flavor of the day. We are rather supposed to ponder, deliberate and choose a proper course of action for whatever undertaking we venture in. The Qur'an obligates believers to think and reflect, we don't just obey blindly, so to you your religion, to me mine!. |
Well I have to compare it to western practice, not religion, because there is no Christian or Jewish state here to compare the Islamic state to! So by your logic, if we should be comparing Muslim reality to other realities, then lets look at the "realities" other rules and socieities: - German Hitler slaughtered more Jews than any other leader or any other country. Is it realistic to say Germans are all racist? Is it realistic to say all Germans are like Hitler? - Muslim attacks increased from 300+ attacks per year to 1500+ attacks per yr after 9/11 in the US. How many realtistic assumptions can we make from this? Lets see…Americans are hateful toward Muslims? Americans are hateful toward Islam? Americans are stupid because they believe all Muslims think lke the 9/11 attackers? - David Koresh was a murderer/ evangelical Christian. How many realistic conclusions can we make from that? All evangelicals are murderers? All evangelicals are violent? All evangelicals are extremist? Well on this last point, the Pentagon seems to think they are. lol So you see, it is unwise to look at extremists who represent the fringe of Islam and rely on them for your own understanding of Islam. They have hijacked my religion. I don't ever remember learning their kind of "Islam" in my sunday school as a child. |
I think you summed it up in that one statement! These pp's truly think they understand Islam better than us, who actually practice Islam. It's no wonder they won't look up a few scholars or imams to call. |
I agree with this. Most people are not interested in learning about Islam but just copy/paste random verses that they do not understand, don't know the context and don't even know what the verses are referring to, to justify their own biases and prejudices against Islam. Besides the fact that due to their ignorance they believe Islam is unjust to women, women are converting to Islam at such rapid rates that they outnumber men 4 to 1.Considering the intense anti-Islamic and hostile media propaganda these past few years, some with a particularly strong emphasis on the 'supposed' degrading position of women in Islam, I feel that those women are exceptional who accept Islam and who were able to separate the negative stereotyping and nonsense from the reality of faith(kudos to your MIL). Muslim women, born and converts, are by no means the empty-headed, submissive, rejects of western society that some would have us believe. These critics fail miserably to understand or relate the true underlying reasons for so many Muslim women's acceptance of and adherence to Islam. This stems from their inability to face the reality of the true motivations of intelligent, thoughtful, western women, both young and old, for accepting Islam. Biased, slanted, and incomplete reporting is often due to plain old ignorance and significant doses of arrogance and pride. But hey, we are not going anywhere, Islam and Muslims are here to stay! |
I'm as Islam neutral as it comes. I am not interested n moving your faith an inch or a foot; what do I care about what an internet stranger believes? I don't think Islam is divinely inspired but then I don't think any religion is. I want you to know something. You behave like every single unskilled dawwa-giver I met, and I met a lot of them - including my numerous Saudi in-laws. They all go on and on about how fabulous Islam is; when I point out something factual that doesn't seem appealing to me, they come up with all kinds of reasons why black is white and white is black, and then they ask me to agree that Islam is fabulous. When I continue saying that it doesn't seem fabulous to me, they all say, No! You see in your heart that it's fabulous, you just DELIBERATELY don't want to admit it. I'm like why? Why would I hesitate to admit it? I've told you about all the reasons it doesn't work for me, and I'm not going to suddenly decide that these reasons aren't important any more. I'm not deliberately being anything. You've failed to make a good argument. That's fine; no religion has ever made a good argument to me. But to insist that whoever doesn't see the beauty of Islam MUST be refusing deliberately is just disrespectful. I have no problem with you believing what you believe. But stop trying to make me admit it makes sense or is fabulous. It doesn't. And it isn't, not to me. And that's completely sincere. |
Cite the source for this. |
You're taking this on a completely unrelated tangent. We were talking about the reality of divorce. And I'll let you in on a secret: there is actually no Islamic state to compare this to, either. Islamic state is like...the unicorn. People talk about it but never actually was brought to life. Islamic state is an utterly theoretical construct. |
Converting people on the internet is not my forte. You do not have to like Islam, you do not have to be a Muslim, really it is a free world, you can believe in whatever you want, you can worship a rat if you want, it's your life! But if you spend countless hours on the internet sharing fallacies about Islam, quoting verses right and left out of context then obviously you are not very secured in whatever it is that you believe. You will never encounter me talking about Bhudhism, Atheism, Christianity, Judaism,...unless I have a question about what a Christian, jewish ect believes, why? Because I am very secured in what I believe and what islam is, so i have zero need of bashing someone else's religion even if I don't believe in it. I might be curious about their beliefs but you won't see me debate what Christians believe or how Bhuddists pray to their God. |
I think between the two of us, you spend WAY more time here than I am. I don't think what I wrote about Islam is a fallacy but I understand why it works for you to believe that I did. I don't believe that I quote verses out of context because you do not have the monopoly on the knowledge of context. I also don't see the connection between participating in this thread and being "not very secured" in whatever I believe - what did you expect to find here? Unadulterated ecstasy? A collective shahada? You don't like when people disagree with you; I get it. I can debate Islam with Muslims without being Muslim because there is no special knowledge that's available to you simply on account of your faith. I've dressed down more of my inlaws on the subject of Islam than I can recall. We read the same books. They just read differently to us. That's what this thread is about. |
There is actually zero reason to believe that the achievements of Islamic civilization in science and art came on account of Islam (just like there's zero reason to believe that scientific advances in Christian-majority countries are driven by Christianity, or that Israel's leadership in many high-tech fields is driven by Judaism.) Civilizations rise and falls. It's the nature of things. |