Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:She's dirty, sexy, beautiful, loving, a great mother, a good cook, a shrewd business woman, funny, sweet, and a whole bunch of other things. At times, I enjoy cherishing and respecting her. Other times, I enjoy screwing her silly. She enjoys all of those things as well. Mainly it's a matter of getting our timing right -- i.e, not cherishing and respecting her when she wants to be an object of lust; and not objectifying her when she wants to be cherished and respected.
No woman should ever be the object of lust. Lust reduces a human to an object, to something less than human.
Perhaps this is just semantics, and all you mean is that there are times you want to be totally passionate. If so, we have no dispute.
I love the times my husband breaks down the door and takes me like he needs me to breathe. But if it really, actually means you want to reduce your lovely wife to an object, then that is wrong.