Paranoia May Destroy Ya (Sexless Marriage Edition)

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:She's dirty, sexy, beautiful, loving, a great mother, a good cook, a shrewd business woman, funny, sweet, and a whole bunch of other things. At times, I enjoy cherishing and respecting her. Other times, I enjoy screwing her silly. She enjoys all of those things as well. Mainly it's a matter of getting our timing right -- i.e, not cherishing and respecting her when she wants to be an object of lust; and not objectifying her when she wants to be cherished and respected.


No woman should ever be the object of lust. Lust reduces a human to an object, to something less than human.

Perhaps this is just semantics, and all you mean is that there are times you want to be totally passionate. If so, we have no dispute. I love the times my husband breaks down the door and takes me like he needs me to breathe. But if it really, actually means you want to reduce your lovely wife to an object, then that is wrong.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:She's dirty, sexy, beautiful, loving, a great mother, a good cook, a shrewd business woman, funny, sweet, and a whole bunch of other things. At times, I enjoy cherishing and respecting her. Other times, I enjoy screwing her silly. She enjoys all of those things as well. Mainly it's a matter of getting our timing right -- i.e, not cherishing and respecting her when she wants to be an object of lust; and not objectifying her when she wants to be cherished and respected.


No woman should ever be the object of lust. Lust reduces a human to an object, to something less than human.

Perhaps this is just semantics, and all you mean is that there are times you want to be totally passionate. If so, we have no dispute. I love the times my husband breaks down the door and takes me like he needs me to breathe. But if it really, actually means you want to reduce your lovely wife to an object, then that is wrong.


I think many women enjoy being able to reduce men to preverbal puddles of desire; particularly if it's the right man at the right time. They aren't delicate flowers who desire only to be made love to. Sometimes being a rutting animal is just the right thing. I don't know if you would characterize that as objectification or not.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:She's dirty, sexy, beautiful, loving, a great mother, a good cook, a shrewd business woman, funny, sweet, and a whole bunch of other things. At times, I enjoy cherishing and respecting her. Other times, I enjoy screwing her silly. She enjoys all of those things as well. Mainly it's a matter of getting our timing right -- i.e, not cherishing and respecting her when she wants to be an object of lust; and not objectifying her when she wants to be cherished and respected.


No woman should ever be the object of lust. Lust reduces a human to an object, to something less than human.

Perhaps this is just semantics, and all you mean is that there are times you want to be totally passionate. If so, we have no dispute. I love the times my husband breaks down the door and takes me like he needs me to breathe. But if it really, actually means you want to reduce your lovely wife to an object, then that is wrong.


I think many women enjoy being able to reduce men to preverbal puddles of desire; particularly if it's the right man at the right time. They aren't delicate flowers who desire only to be made love to. Sometimes being a rutting animal is just the right thing. I don't know if you would characterize that as objectification or not.


Excellent PP.
Anonymous
Every husband needs to sometimes have his way with his wife and be a total caveman. The result is a very happy and satisfied wife.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Every husband needs to sometimes have his way with his wife and be a total caveman. The result is a very happy and satisfied wife.


Yup. It's just that the timing can be so tricky -- especially for a dumb man such as myself.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Every husband needs to sometimes have his way with his wife and be a total caveman. The result is a very happy and satisfied wife.[/quote]

Are you sure? It seems like the result is is a very happy and satisfied husband. And a wife who is thinking, "okay, got that over with." What you men don't realize is that most women are faking it. They'd rather take 2 minutes to pleasure themself and not have to put up with being humped like you're a dog. If your wife tells you she likes it when you behave that way, she's lying.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:She's dirty, sexy, beautiful, loving, a great mother, a good cook, a shrewd business woman, funny, sweet, and a whole bunch of other things. At times, I enjoy cherishing and respecting her. Other times, I enjoy screwing her silly. She enjoys all of those things as well. Mainly it's a matter of getting our timing right -- i.e, not cherishing and respecting her when she wants to be an object of lust; and not objectifying her when she wants to be cherished and respected.


No woman should ever be the object of lust. Lust reduces a human to an object, to something less than human.

Perhaps this is just semantics, and all you mean is that there are times you want to be totally passionate. If so, we have no dispute. I love the times my husband breaks down the door and takes me like he needs me to breathe. But if it really, actually means you want to reduce your lovely wife to an object, then that is wrong.


Are you married to Fabio?
ThatSmileyFaceGuy
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Every husband needs to sometimes have his way with his wife and be a total caveman. The result is a very happy and satisfied wife.


Are you sure? It seems like the result is is a very happy and satisfied husband. And a wife who is thinking, "okay, got that over with." What you men don't realize is that most women are faking it. They'd rather take 2 minutes to pleasure themself and not have to put up with being humped like you're a dog. If your wife tells you she likes it when you behave that way, she's lying.


Not every woman is as repressed as you are and I would think that they would appreciate that you stop talking for them.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:She's dirty, sexy, beautiful, loving, a great mother, a good cook, a shrewd business woman, funny, sweet, and a whole bunch of other things. At times, I enjoy cherishing and respecting her. Other times, I enjoy screwing her silly. She enjoys all of those things as well. Mainly it's a matter of getting our timing right -- i.e, not cherishing and respecting her when she wants to be an object of lust; and not objectifying her when she wants to be cherished and respected.


No woman should ever be the object of lust. Lust reduces a human to an object, to something less than human.

Perhaps this is just semantics, and all you mean is that there are times you want to be totally passionate. If so, we have no dispute. I love the times my husband breaks down the door and takes me like he needs me to breathe. But if it really, actually means you want to reduce your lovely wife to an object, then that is wrong.


Are you married to Fabio?


Way better. I'm married to a Marine
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:She's dirty, sexy, beautiful, loving, a great mother, a good cook, a shrewd business woman, funny, sweet, and a whole bunch of other things. At times, I enjoy cherishing and respecting her. Other times, I enjoy screwing her silly. She enjoys all of those things as well. Mainly it's a matter of getting our timing right -- i.e, not cherishing and respecting her when she wants to be an object of lust; and not objectifying her when she wants to be cherished and respected.


No woman should ever be the object of lust. Lust reduces a human to an object, to something less than human.

Perhaps this is just semantics, and all you mean is that there are times you want to be totally passionate. If so, we have no dispute. I love the times my husband breaks down the door and takes me like he needs me to breathe. But if it really, actually means you want to reduce your lovely wife to an object, then that is wrong.
oh church lady *sigh*
Anonymous
What the hell with mystical sex lady? You belong in an ashram somewhere. Sex is fun, good exercise, sweaty, enjoyable----but not the mystical union you set it up to be. It's just sex.
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