Anonymous wrote:Married people will say yes it's poor form.

Anyone who's gone through divorce will say it's ok, as long as you've processed the divorce and taken care of the logistics. Because the legal side of things can take a long time. The emotional side of things can also take a long time, and ideally someone has processed the end of their marriage. But divorced people know sometimes the processing happens *during* the marriage which is the cause of the divorce in the first place.