The ovulation thing, that's a real phenomena. It's called "Mittleshmertz" I think, it's a german term.

"Some women even experience “mittleshmertz” — a twinge or ache low in the abdomen and to one side, when they ovulate."
http://www.todaysparent.com/pregnancybirth/pregnancy/article.jsp?content=20040521_113439_3432&page=2

I get this. It feels like a sharp pin prick in one side of your abdomen. Basically where your ovary is.

I PMd you, OP.

If your family in TX are kid-friendly, I would definitely do it. You can't underestimate how important a support system can be if times ever get tough. So many of us are learning that nowadays

Maybe you can rent instead of selling, make a three year plan, go to TX, and then come back if you don't like it?