My happily married wife, mid 30s, was recently approached by her female boss who told her how much she loved her, wanted to care for her, and wanted to leave her husband and spend the rest of her life with her. She also told her how sexually attracted to her she was.
Awkward.
The conversation is ongoing, delicate, - but it's probably the hardest thing she's ever had to do. Clearly her boss's feelings are real - but man, why now....
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Anonymous wrote:I think a lot of women are bisexual or somewhere other than a 0 on the Kinsey scale without realizing it - with how our culture is with showing admiration for other women as a sign of jealousy or envy or just giving a compliment, many women might initially not realize they're anything other than straight because showing admiration for other women is seen as "normal" and the line between admiration and attraction is so fluid.
Coming from someone who's bisexual and realized it after I got into a relationship with the man I'm eventually going to marry, realizing that you're attracted to women can happen at any age, and it can happen in different degrees to different people. Your friend probably discovered a stronger connection to the woman she's marrying than she ever felt with men - and that is totally valid. Maybe she's like me and she just falls for people and gender isn't a deciding factor.
Definitely agree with this. I’m in my mid 30s and have been married to my husband for 10 years & have only dated men... I’ve never been attracted to a woman in my life. Until now. Met a woman several months ago who has literally take my breath away. She gives me butterflies and is absolutely gorgeous. It has completely taken me by surprise. Complicated by the fact that she acts very, very flirty around me... she’s also married with kids. Anyway, I think sexuality can be fluid. I also think it’s a fact that women have a little more leeway when it comes to friendship and intimacy. I realize this is a little off topic from original post but I’ve found this thread interesting.