Anonymous wrote:I had a similar situation with my DS, only it was between 1st and 2nd grade. It wasn't his first summer in camp, he had been in an all-day camp the previous summer and did fine, but this was a different one, he didn't know anyone, and I guess just an unfamiliar situation.
It's a bit different from your situation in that I was getting calls from the counselor that he was upset and crying. Day three of this and I pulled him out. I worked outside the home FT and I was thinking what the heck am I going to do with this kid? I was really lucky to have a college-aged neighbor looking for a job so I paid her to watch him over the summer. He loved her.
I'm inclined to go with your feeling to give it a few more days, through the end of the week, and then make a decision together. If she still feels strongly about it, I don't think there's a need to push a 5 yo to be miserable in order to teach a bigger lesson. Plenty of time for those life lessons to come!
My 5 yo DS is in the same situation..in a new camp where he does not know any kid from before. First 3 days, he cried on the way back home that he did not have any friends and no one wants to play with him. I spoke to the camp manager and she has been trying to keep DS involved in activities with other kids. She keeps sending me his pictures throughout the day to show he is happy and engaged. After a week, he is no longer miserable and feels much better. He tells that he is slowly making some new friends. I did not pull him out as I thought it would be a learning experience for him as he would face the same situation when he starts Public School in fall when he will be in a new place with new kids again. However If he had continued to be upset after the first week, I might have done something about it.