Anonymous wrote:Single woman, 33 years old here. Went on a first date on Friday with a really cool guy, had an awesome time and ended-up sleeping with him. He hasn't called me. Did I mess up? I usually wait until date 3 to have sex and am no virgin but I'm not promiscuous either. I've only had three one nights stands in college. Can I fix this?

What is there to fix? You said you had an awesome time. I am going to assume he had a pretty good time also. You could actually call him if you want.

Well, at 31, she is an adult, and as such, capable of making her own decisions. How does she even remember the actual number of guys she slept with? And how do you remember it? Hopefully she is ensuring they are using protection. You make it sound like the guy broke off the engagement. Correct? Do you know why?
I am not too sure a spouse needs to know the other's sexual past. why?
all you can really do is talk to her. Tell her you love her. See what happens.