Anonymous wrote:18.

And no I don't know where or how he is nor do I care to know.

Anonymous wrote:We were both 15, first love. Very good times. It ran its course due to a combination of moves, youth, his depression issues, and going to different colleges. Not in touch since I dropped him freshman year of college.

I was always high drive. I could never have waited as long as some do, but to each their own, eh.

Anonymous wrote:

Latinlover04 wrote:

Anonymous wrote:15. Yes, he's in the living room watching a movie I found really boring so came in here to read some blizzard threads.

So are you going to get in trouble for being on a thread?

You seem to have lost your way. Explicit forum is that way ------>

Anonymous wrote:

Latinlover04 wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How compatible are most people with their partners? How often would you like to have sex, ideally, vs how many times your partner would say it's ideal? I'd like to think my husband and I are on the same page, but I am not sure anymore. We are definitely not in a sexless marriage, but maybe his idea of a sexually satisfying marriage and my idea are different.

Try a flirty friend....I'm a good guy friend

Dude seriously? Go back to explicit.

Anonymous wrote:15. Yes, he's in the living room watching a movie I found really boring so came in here to read some blizzard threads.

Anonymous wrote:Yes we both have new jobs, and his is far less stressful than his previous job and far less stressful than my job.

Anonymous wrote:17. High school/college boyfriend.

Nope. Not together.

Anonymous wrote:In the last year or so, my husband rarely initiates if ever and straight out denies my for sex when I bring up the idea. I have tried to talk to him about it multiple times (at least 20) and he makes excuses why he doesn't want to talk about the situation or somehow says it's my fault. I've asked him point blank of his is having and affair, which he denies. Our baseline used to be 3 times a week, now maybe twice a month. I'm upset, sad, lonely etc. Both of us still exercise multiple times a week and he has no other signs of depression or huge amounts of insurmountable stress. Thoughts? Advice? He literally just ignores me.

Anonymous wrote:How compatible are most people with their partners? How often would you like to have sex, ideally, vs how many times your partner would say it's ideal? I'd like to think my husband and I are on the same page, but I am not sure anymore. We are definitely not in a sexless marriage, but maybe his idea of a sexually satisfying marriage and my idea are different.

RopeNhealer wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Attractive and fit DW. I have expressed nicely and angrily my frustration. Changes? None. I get rebuffed daily.

My new years resolution is to move on emotionally and physically.

In the meantime I'm taking action to up my outward appearance -just for me. If something good or physical happens as a result-bonus.

If another M finds me appealing and something happens, it won't be because I didn't communicate, beg, plead, yell about my dismay in my marriage to my partner.

I am in a similar situation. Very frustrating. Have you considered looking for an AP?

Anonymous wrote:I eat well, burrow myself in work, workout, and porn.