Anonymous wrote:In the last year or so, my husband rarely initiates if ever and straight out denies my for sex when I bring up the idea. I have tried to talk to him about it multiple times (at least 20) and he makes excuses why he doesn't want to talk about the situation or somehow says it's my fault. I've asked him point blank of his is having and affair, which he denies. Our baseline used to be 3 times a week, now maybe twice a month. I'm upset, sad, lonely etc. Both of us still exercise multiple times a week and he has no other signs of depression or huge amounts of insurmountable stress. Thoughts? Advice? He literally just ignores me.

Anonymous wrote:Yes we both have new jobs, and his is far less stressful than his previous job and far less stressful than my job.

Anonymous wrote:In the last year or so, my husband rarely initiates if ever and straight out denies my for sex when I bring up the idea. I have tried to talk to him about it multiple times (at least 20) and he makes excuses why he doesn't want to talk about the situation or somehow says it's my fault. I've asked him point blank of his is having and affair, which he denies. Our baseline used to be 3 times a week, now maybe twice a month. I'm upset, sad, lonely etc. Both of us still exercise multiple times a week and he has no other signs of depression or huge amounts of insurmountable stress. Thoughts? Advice? He literally just ignores me.

Anonymous wrote:Sometimes you get tired of sex with the same person and it becomes a chore. That can be depressing and frightening because you want a stable life but you are sick that the feeling isn't the same excitement . It's a horrible sinking feeling and sex gets old with almost everybody to some extent.