I'm having lunch with a male friend tomorrow (I'm female). This is a strictly platonic friendship, I'm married, so nothing romantic or too personal. I can't think of a middle ground, he has asked me to choose the place, but I don't want to presume on his financial situation. I may be over thinking this... I'm not sure. I am used to going to very expensive places with my DH and girlfriends, he is still in grad school living the frugal life I believe, as I remember all too well. Any suggestions? No raw shellfish was his only requirement, and I prefer somewhere lively but not too loud that we can't have a conversation.