If you ever had an affair, how do you look back on it?

^ It sounds like you still need lots of therapy. Your kids will be dealing with this in how they feel about you and it’s impact on their own relationships fir them rest of their lives. How can you not hate what you did to cause that?

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09/07/2021 00:12

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Anonymous

^ next up for public shaming?

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09/07/2021 09:40

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Anonymous wrote:I don't really regret it, but I do regret being careless because my kids found out. Still dealing with the fallout from that.

Wow, you don't really regret it, although it changed your children's opinion of your character forever. And likely impacted their trust of all their future partners. Got it.

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09/07/2021 09:41

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Anonymous wrote:I don't really regret it, but I do regret being careless because my kids found out. Still dealing with the fallout from that.

Just shows that tigers don't change their stripes (when it comes to what they value and who they put first).

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09/07/2021 09:42

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't really regret it, but I do regret being careless because my kids found out. Still dealing with the fallout from that.

Just shows that tigers don't change their stripes (when it comes to what they value and who they put first).

I have come to the conclusion that people who cheat lack empathy. I don’t know that you can fix that. Sad for their families who have to live with the fallout.

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09/10/2021 11:12

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't really regret it, but I do regret being careless because my kids found out. Still dealing with the fallout from that.

Just shows that tigers don't change their stripes (when it comes to what they value and who they put first).

I have come to the conclusion that people who cheat lack empathy. I don’t know that you can fix that. Sad for their families who have to live with the fallout.

+100

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09/10/2021 11:12

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Anonymous wrote:I don't really regret it, but I do regret being careless because my kids found out. Still dealing with the fallout from that.

Did your spouse divorce you?

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09/10/2021 11:12

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Anonymous

No regrets.

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09/10/2021 14:29

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Anonymous

As a necessity at the time (emotional affair). I would have killed myself due to the abuse at home.

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09/10/2021 14:35

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Yes, because he turned out to be a horrible person (for more than just the affair), and I am ashamed that I associated with someone like that.

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09/10/2021 14:38

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't really regret it, but I do regret being careless because my kids found out. Still dealing with the fallout from that.

Just shows that tigers don't change their stripes (when it comes to what they value and who they put first).

I have come to the conclusion that people who cheat lack empathy. I don’t know that you can fix that. Sad for their families who have to live with the fallout.