If you ever had an affair, how do you look back on it?

[Anonymous]

No regret as we ended up married. I did learn a lot about myself and realize that what I did was wrong. I’d never do it again.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, zero regret. We’re married too! Best damn decision I ever made.

+3

[Anonymous]

Both a learning experience, some regret and let's be honest, some really fantastic memories.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have had many affairs. No regrets. Life experience.

Right, so while you were getting screwed, so was your wife. Just in a different way.

People like you are actually scarey to me.

So amoral and selfish.

Almost everyone on this forum is female. You mean “husband”.

[Anonymous]

I miss the man I had an affair with. He was my best friend and a fun lover, and I want both back.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I miss the man I had an affair with. He was my best friend and a fun lover, and I want both back.

Tough shit. He’s married.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I miss the man I had an affair with. He was my best friend and a fun lover, and I want both back.

Best friend? Really? How long did it take for him to become your best friend in the whole wide world? FFS

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Most Women don’t have regrets because by the time they cheat they have checked out if the marriage and are looking for an exit. Only 33% report having happy marriages. They are looking for an emotional connection along with the physical.

Men are much different. 65% report being in happy to e trend my happy affairs. The few I knew that were caught in my lifetime had severe remorse. Got into individual therapy and really did change. Of course, some men don’t care like these women posting in this thread. For the ones I know, they say seeing their wife’s hurt and pain was unbearable and if they could go back in time they never would have done it.

100% of these statistics are made-up bullshit. People who engage in affairs are not likely to be studied, or volunteer any truthful or accurate information if they were asked.

[Anonymous]

I had many affairs-maybe 15 partners-some, just once over about a 6 year period. No regrets about any of it and I'd do it again in the same circumstances. No one got caught, no drama. Ended up with the last AP, together 8 years now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I had many affairs-maybe 15 partners-some, just once over about a 6 year period. No regrets about any of it and I'd do it again in the same circumstances. No one got caught, no drama. Ended up with the last AP, together 8 years now.

Talk about a booby prize! She has my sympathy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, because he turned out to be a horrible person (for more than just the affair), and I am ashamed that I associated with someone like that.

Really? How so?