How long do you give someone to pack their bags?

[Anonymous]

Someone who has done the unthinkable* to you.
But they can’t really support themself.

Helping out a friend through a really dark period in her life, but I’ve never had to give someone the boot.

*pass cheating

Are their any legal precautions if he helps with bills? But no where substantial. She’s in Fl.

[Anonymous]

I can't follow your post. Do you always write in shorthand?

I'd give a week.

[Anonymous]

No time.

Throw everything from the 2nd floor window.

[Anonymous]

What is pass cheating?

[Anonymous]

OP has a friend in Florida, and the friend's SO did something really bad, worse than cheating. How does the friend kick out the SO?

[Anonymous]

Is it the friend's house? Or jointly-owned?

It's easier to pack your own bags and leave.

[Anonymous]

If she is the owner, give one hour and call the locksmith.

[Anonymous]

I love me a good mystery novel. OP, please come back and write Chapter 2 because you gave me just enough in Chapter 1 to be interested without really understanding what is going on.

[Anonymous]

Unthinkable is super broad. If a crime was committed, then I call the cops and you'd best be gone before they get here.

I'm not sure what is unthinkable, worse than cheating but not a crime.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is it the friend's house? Or jointly-owned?

It's easier to pack your own bags and leave.

There is a CDC moratorium on evictions right now.

[Anonymous]

What's *pass cheating?

I had to read the OP 3 times to sort of decipher what the post is about, but I can't figure this part out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is it the friend's house? Or jointly-owned?

It's easier to pack your own bags and leave.

There is a CDC moratorium on evictions right now.

It just got thrown out but presumably this is a roommate situation, not a landlord. No eviction required (but if the person is on the lease, I don't see how you throw them out.)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I love me a good mystery novel. OP, please come back and write Chapter 2 because you gave me just enough in Chapter 1 to be interested without really understanding what is going on.

I'm sorry I'll give more context. My best friend(early 30s) is in her first serious relationship with a man that has taken her for the ride of a lifetime. Some of the few things he's done she's just disclosed to me, he's married(didn't know), HIV positive (didn't disclose, not using protection), and upon returning back from work found him engaging in intercourse(another man)* with illicit drugs.

She found out the first two when she showed up for him at the hospital, and his wife was there.

She gave him time to move out, get his life together before the third incident occurred.

Now she's reaching out to me for assistance with this slew of information. I've just seen her for the first time since the pandemic a few weeks ago and she has a lot of the physical signs of depression, it makes my heart break inside. I never knew this was going on, he works at a law firm, not a lawyer but a really smart, charismatic guy who had us ALL fooled.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If she is the owner, give one hour and call the locksmith.

She is the owner, they met right when her mom died. Which was my one and only red flag, but I didn't want to sound like an A**hole.

She got a small windfall of course, which was right when he moved in.

[Anonymous]

She should pack his bags for him, leave his stuff on the curb, and change the locks.