Jen Hatmaker

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:PP re charities. Why must anyone establish their own charity? I find this outrageously narcissistic. Certainly there are established, well-run organizations that share your values and would give to your very specific interests.

Enough with starting your own charity!

+ 1, but I’ll add a caveat unless there isn’t a particular charity out there already.

A friend of mine lost her spouse very young and has set up scholarships for a niche activity he enjoyed in his memory. From what I can tell there isn’t a lot out there that exists in this area so I think it’s a nice way to honor his memory and don’t believe she gets anything financial out of it (pretty sure she is set with life insurance + having a decent job).

But this whole charity that then donates to other charities model is super weird.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A new charity has been registered out of little Buda, Texas recently:

“The Big Sis/Sass Collective”

Shut up. Are you serious or are you snarking?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:PP re charities. Why must anyone establish their own charity? I find this outrageously narcissistic. Certainly there are established, well-run organizations that share your values and would give to your very specific interests.

Enough with starting your own charity!

+ 1, but I’ll add a caveat unless there isn’t a particular charity out there already.

A friend of mine lost her spouse very young and has set up scholarships for a niche activity he enjoyed in his memory. From what I can tell there isn’t a lot out there that exists in this area so I think it’s a nice way to honor his memory and don’t believe she gets anything financial out of it (pretty sure she is set with life insurance + having a decent job).

But this whole charity that then donates to other charities model is super weird.

No issue someone starting their own charity. We got a grant from a fund like you described above where a widow used some of her insurance money to establish a charity in her late husband's name. The idea that someone can manage to make a tax-deductable charitable donation but isn't capable of deciding where their money should actually go

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She should definitely keep the buda house. Surely she can afford annual taxes even with minimal cash flow. It’s only around 2000 square feet and less than an acre. Very reasonable. Even with her various updates she probably doesn’t owe much or anything on it by now. They’ve been there so long and it’s not pricey. I’m in real estate. It’s her best asset, and I include her books as a whole published collection when I say that.

All of her books as a whole published collection are definitely an accomplishment, much to be proud of. But you’re right, not an asset. All titles included, they probably move by the “tens” annually now, not even hundreds of copies sold anymore. The new book will have a quick burst in the thousands when it comes out, then join the rest.

I think she makes decent money on podcasts. I know someone with a similarly-engaged youtube channel and when she has a few hundred thousand views on a video, I believe she makes a few thousand dollars. It adds up, even the smaller amounts from lesser-viewed uploads. That’s why they make so.much.content. Throw it all at the wall and see what sticks. It’s not sustainable though and can dry up at any moment.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So she wrote a cookbook and some time between writing and publishing, she started dating Tyler.

She made a sappy dedication to him in her pinned book publishing post saying she'd remake the recipes to vegetarian so he could eat them which he didn't bother to thumbs up. Jennifer Garner did but Tyler couldn't be bothered even though she constantly tags him in stuff?

He, who I'd never heard of before they started dating, enjoying a big bump in social media following after Jen introduced him as her man, does not interact with her on social media or does so only minimally. He obviously knows how social media works and is active on social media and interacts with fans who show interest in his tee shirts.

I still cringe at the thought of her printing Tyler’s name in her book dedication that early in their relationship. Embarrassing. Can’t be undone. And of all her books, the cookbook has the most long-lasting appeal. Her great-grandkids could have that one on their shelf and make the recipes and laugh at her humor and enjoy ancestor photos. They won’t be sitting around reading “For the Love” … but they will be wondering “who is Tyler?”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So she wrote a cookbook and some time between writing and publishing, she started dating Tyler.

She made a sappy dedication to him in her pinned book publishing post saying she'd remake the recipes to vegetarian so he could eat them which he didn't bother to thumbs up. Jennifer Garner did but Tyler couldn't be bothered even though she constantly tags him in stuff?

He, who I'd never heard of before they started dating, enjoying a big bump in social media following after Jen introduced him as her man, does not interact with her on social media or does so only minimally. He obviously knows how social media works and is active on social media and interacts with fans who show interest in his tee shirts.

I still cringe at the thought of her printing Tyler’s name in her book dedication that early in their relationship. Embarrassing. Can’t be undone. And of all her books, the cookbook has the most long-lasting appeal. Her great-grandkids could have that one on their shelf and make the recipes and laugh at her humor and enjoy ancestor photos. They won’t be sitting around reading “For the Love” … but they will be wondering “who is Tyler?”

Is he mentioned in the actual book? I went back and forth on whether to buy it and landed on no. The idea of the book was actually appealing to me and I listed to her podcast epidosde about food photography, which made me want to like it. But coupled with the schilling of crappy able clothes and CBD gummies, I just can't do it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:FROM: JCAPSocialTeamAshlee


TO: BOSS LADY


CC: JCAPSocialTeam Ashli, JACPSocialTeamMandi


SUBJECT: Tomorrow’s Scheduled Post


Hey Jane!


Awesome job on today’s post <fire emoji fire emoji fire emoji>


Super relatable - I know that’s what you’re going for and I also value my job enough to know that I need to provide regular but not too gusy affirming feedback so let’s check that box, baby!


Anyway, just a QQ about tomorrow’s scheduled post. I have an image of four…looks like TP rolls loaded in Meta Business Suite. Are you…sure about this one? I know you’re forever taking pictures of quirky, random things and trust me, NO JUDGEMENT for taking pics of artfully arranged recyclables but…I just wanted to make sure that this was the vibe we’re going for tomorrow.


LMK and again, that dress is every damn thing, Jane, and I’ll be sure and monitor your commissions and get back to you. Keep on replying to comments, which we all know is code for buy buy buy. Great job <heart eyes emoji heart eyes emoji heart eyes emoji>
Xo
Ashelee


TO: JCAPSocialTeamAshlee


FROM: JCAPSocialTeam Ashli


CC: JACPSocialTeamMandi


SUBJECT: She Trippin


Seriously WTF. She take too many of the Focl again or did Trev finally tell her it’s o-v-e-r?


TP-EFFIN-ROLLS? I can say I’ve seen it all. Someone ought to call Ruby & see if she’s OK.


Not it.


Ashli


TO: JCAPSocialTeam Ashli
CC: JCAPSocialTeamAshlee


FROM: JACPSocialTeamMandi


SUBJECT: She Trippin


LOLZ NFW. I had to tell her to ixnay the thirsty white lady comments on Trev’s Dr. Ruth post. Not my turn. <red X emoji red X emoji red X emoji>


TO: JCAPSocialTeam Ashli, JAPSocialTeamAshlee, JACPSocialTeamMandi


FROM: BOSS LADY


SUBJECT: Tomorrow’s Scheduled Post


Hey Darlings!


Thank you so much for checking in and for the affirmations. This link - totally share w/your people - has an extra five percent off my mud-brown dress - https://www.ableblahblahjaneschillsalldayfuglydressXTRA20.com


I SO appreciate you.


No, the TP roll post is GTG. It’s an example of my irreverance and to show my HUNDREDS OF THOUSANDS OF FOLLOWERS that even though I appear practically perfect in every way, I’m really a small town girl just like them. Except better. And, with more mascara.


But, since you reached out, here are a couple of additional photos to review - I’m now thinking (overthinking is soooooo common with us high executive functioning peeps tra la la) about having all the TP rolls down or all up, instead of the artful grouping in the draft pic. Or three down and one up. Or one down and three up. Y’all decide. I have total faithy in MY RIDE OR DIE GIRLIES. <gratitude hands emoji hands emoji hands emoji>


Just schedule whatever. Love you so much. <heart eyes emoji heart eyes emoji heart eyes emoji>




Jane


TO: JCAPSocialTeamAshlee


FROM: JCAPSocialTeam Ashli


CC: JACPSocialTeamMandi


SUBJECT: She Trippin


So, we’re posting TP rolls tomorrow. Cool, cool. Have a good weekend.


And, if she calls, I’m totally not it.
Chow.


TO: JACPSocialTeamMandi


FROM: JCAPSocialTeam Ashli


CC: JCAPSocialTeamAshlee


SUBJECT: Oh Shit


Oops.

So much to unpack so I’ll just go with “not it” and “chow”. 😂😂😂

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So she wrote a cookbook and some time between writing and publishing, she started dating Tyler.

She made a sappy dedication to him in her pinned book publishing post saying she'd remake the recipes to vegetarian so he could eat them which he didn't bother to thumbs up. Jennifer Garner did but Tyler couldn't be bothered even though she constantly tags him in stuff?

He, who I'd never heard of before they started dating, enjoying a big bump in social media following after Jen introduced him as her man, does not interact with her on social media or does so only minimally. He obviously knows how social media works and is active on social media and interacts with fans who show interest in his tee shirts.

I still cringe at the thought of her printing Tyler’s name in her book dedication that early in their relationship. Embarrassing. Can’t be undone. And of all her books, the cookbook has the most long-lasting appeal. Her great-grandkids could have that one on their shelf and make the recipes and laugh at her humor and enjoy ancestor photos. They won’t be sitting around reading “For the Love” … but they will be wondering “who is Tyler?”

snark
Is he mentioned in the actual book? I went back and forth on whether to buy it and landed on no. The idea of the book was actually appealing to me and I listed to her podcast epidosde about food photography, which made me want to like it. But coupled with the schilling of crappy able clothes and CBD gummies, I just can't do it.

No some of the recipes in the cook cook are awesome. I made some and love the jammy grilled cheese dish. Delicious. I love hearty, flavor first, Football Saturday/Sunday party food and this book is a love letter to this style of cuisine. Bets thing Jen's every written.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:FROM: JCAPSocialTeamAshlee


TO: BOSS LADY


CC: JCAPSocialTeam Ashli, JACPSocialTeamMandi


SUBJECT: Tomorrow’s Scheduled Post


Hey Jane!


Awesome job on today’s post <fire emoji fire emoji fire emoji>


Super relatable - I know that’s what you’re going for and I also value my job enough to know that I need to provide regular but not too gusy affirming feedback so let’s check that box, baby!


Anyway, just a QQ about tomorrow’s scheduled post. I have an image of four…looks like TP rolls loaded in Meta Business Suite. Are you…sure about this one? I know you’re forever taking pictures of quirky, random things and trust me, NO JUDGEMENT for taking pics of artfully arranged recyclables but…I just wanted to make sure that this was the vibe we’re going for tomorrow.


LMK and again, that dress is every damn thing, Jane, and I’ll be sure and monitor your commissions and get back to you. Keep on replying to comments, which we all know is code for buy buy buy. Great job <heart eyes emoji heart eyes emoji heart eyes emoji>
Xo
Ashelee


TO: JCAPSocialTeamAshlee


FROM: JCAPSocialTeam Ashli


CC: JACPSocialTeamMandi


SUBJECT: She Trippin


Seriously WTF. She take too many of the Focl again or did Trev finally tell her it’s o-v-e-r?


TP-EFFIN-ROLLS? I can say I’ve seen it all. Someone ought to call Ruby & see if she’s OK.


Not it.


Ashli


TO: JCAPSocialTeam Ashli
CC: JCAPSocialTeamAshlee


FROM: JACPSocialTeamMandi


SUBJECT: She Trippin


LOLZ NFW. I had to tell her to ixnay the thirsty white lady comments on Trev’s Dr. Ruth post. Not my turn. <red X emoji red X emoji red X emoji>


TO: JCAPSocialTeam Ashli, JAPSocialTeamAshlee, JACPSocialTeamMandi


FROM: BOSS LADY


SUBJECT: Tomorrow’s Scheduled Post


Hey Darlings!


Thank you so much for checking in and for the affirmations. This link - totally share w/your people - has an extra five percent off my mud-brown dress - https://www.ableblahblahjaneschillsalldayfuglydressXTRA20.com


I SO appreciate you.


No, the TP roll post is GTG. It’s an example of my irreverance and to show my HUNDREDS OF THOUSANDS OF FOLLOWERS that even though I appear practically perfect in every way, I’m really a small town girl just like them. Except better. And, with more mascara.


But, since you reached out, here are a couple of additional photos to review - I’m now thinking (overthinking is soooooo common with us high executive functioning peeps tra la la) about having all the TP rolls down or all up, instead of the artful grouping in the draft pic. Or three down and one up. Or one down and three up. Y’all decide. I have total faithy in MY RIDE OR DIE GIRLIES. <gratitude hands emoji hands emoji hands emoji>


Just schedule whatever. Love you so much. <heart eyes emoji heart eyes emoji heart eyes emoji>




Jane


TO: JCAPSocialTeamAshlee


FROM: JCAPSocialTeam Ashli


CC: JACPSocialTeamMandi


SUBJECT: She Trippin


So, we’re posting TP rolls tomorrow. Cool, cool. Have a good weekend.


And, if she calls, I’m totally not it.
Chow.


TO: JACPSocialTeamMandi


FROM: JCAPSocialTeam Ashli


CC: JCAPSocialTeamAshlee


SUBJECT: Oh Shit


Oops.

So much to unpack so I’ll just go with “not it” and “chow”. 😂😂😂

Absolutely brilliant idea to interweave the various voices of Jen's "team" in email. Reminds me of parts of Bridget Jones Diary.

Loved this part.

"No, the TP roll post is GTG. It’s an example of my irreverance and to show my HUNDREDS OF THOUSANDS OF FOLLOWERS that even though I appear practically perfect in every way, I’m really a small town girl just like them. Except better. And, with more mascara."

OMG!!!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Beauty counter closed shop too…

Every single person that I know who has shilled BC has aged 10 years since starting with them. Seriously. Good riddance.

[Anonymous]

I never throw my empty TP rolls away either. They just collect because I procrastinate.

Now that Jen thinks it’s a fun quirky low executive functioning joke - I throw them all away immediately.

So… thanks, Sis?

[Anonymous]

i am so lost.

her = big sis & him = big sass? where are you finding this?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:i am so lost.

her = big sis & him = big sass? where are you finding this?

We made it up. On this forum. Hundreds of pages ago. And it’s hilarious.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:i am so lost.

her = big sis & him = big sass? where are you finding this?

They are just nicknames they got over the years. Jen was Big Sis first on account of her big time big sister energy. When Tyler/Trevor came onto the scene he got the nickname Big Sass on account of him being all big and sassy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Beauty counter closed shop too…

Every single person that I know who has shilled BC has aged 10 years since starting with them. Seriously. Good riddance.

Was BC an MLM?