I think people tend to rely on schools' reputations and might not notice that one school (Spence) has done very well over recent years while another (Chapin) remained very impressive, solid and steady but has not really "closed the gap" to Brearley. I have no connection to any of the all-girls schools but when I look at Spence college admissions (Ivys + Duke + Stanford + MIT), I am pretty impressed. Brearley does very well with Ivys but if you include other top tier schools (Duke + Standford + MIT), the gap between B and S is smaller. S sends more students to those 3 schools (that I would personally choose over some of the Ivys). |
They’d also get in from a public school. The real question ought to be “what will this school do for my kid specifically” - the reason to avoid a 3T is that if your kid is bored out of their mind in high school, that’s going to affect their college prospects in ways that have nothing to do with the school’s reputation. |
Stanford and Duke yes. Not MIT. They don’t even list MIT on the website because there haven’t been more than one per year like those schools they list. None of the girls schools get very many kids into MIT. They’re not really geared toward that place. |
Lots of Spence moms on this forum. The three girls schools are very much the same. I think what some posters are trying to express is that class size in the upper school has some variations that would impact matriculation percentages. A kindergarten class could have 75 kids but a graduating class could have 55 because many students leave for coed schools and the admissions office don’t always fill all slots if they don’t feel they have found the right candidates. I think that makes perfect sense. I don’t see Spence closing any perceived gap that Chapin has failed to close. They offer the same classes and level of rigor. |
Why would you choose Duke over an Ivy? |
Because Cornell and Brown exist |
The schools give social and professional connections that are superior to Ivies. The quality of education, due to individualized attention and resources and lack of faculty tenure, is better than any public by leaps and bounds (sorry, Scarsdale). They will harm your college admissions prospects significantly but that doesn’t matter. It’s better to go to Collegiate and SMU than Rye HS and Cornell. |
Yeah, no. Particularly at a lower-tier school, connections of that sort only ever happen if you fit in with the popular crowd - which the majority of students don't - and individual attention and resources can't make up for an unchallenging curriculum and dumb classmates. If you want your bright, interesting kid to become their best self then for god's sake don't have them spend their high school career with lazy overprivileged kids at a school that gives them A's for spelling their name correctly. |
Are you really asking this question? |
Students at Collegiate and Trinity aren’t lazy, the bottom quarter is far more put together than anything at a public school. Plenty of rich kids aren’t “popular” and you don’t need to be rich to be friends with them. People make careers out of their kindergarten class and came from nothing. |
The class size does affect matriculation percentages but the thing is we do not need to second guess the size of graduating classes in each of the schools. We know from Chapin's own website that Chapin had 299 graduating students between 2021 and 2025. 299/5 = 59.8 students per year, or 60 students over 4 years and 59 students one year. Not 55 or 57 - at least during the latest years. I am not a Spence mom - just someone who is trying to figure out the right school for my DD who is bored in her local not-TT private. FWIW, I can clearly see the difference in college outcomes between the 3 schools based on pure data - not vibes. It doesn't mean a school with better matriculations is better than the others. Of course, there are other factors (e.g. school culture, level of pressure on students) that are more important than college admissions. |
You were quoting a comment about why you shouldn't put your kid in a 3T school because if they're bored it'll affect their college prospects. |
My bad. Meant more TT and 2T. Yes, going to a decent public on the UES is usually a better choice than paying 65k to do drugs. |
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