| My 29 year old fiancé follows a bunch of hot Instagram models on insta. We have a wonderful and loving relationship. Is this a big deal? |
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I don’t think my husband knows what Instagram is.
However, how is this any different than you following male celebrities? |
| It tells me he is in his twenties |
| No. But we are in our 40s. But I don’t think he would. |
| at his age, it would be weird if he didn’t follow any. |
| Worry only if they follow him back. |
| No, because he’s not a creep. |
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I do it. I’m 38. I like looking at T and A. The horror. |
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I follow a number of hot grad students and med students who enjoy posing in lingerie and tiny bikinis. I sometimes comment on their photos. I expect I will eventually date on of these women.
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| Provided he's not talking to them at worst its softcore porn, I don't see the big deal. |
Do you follow them on insta or irl |
| Of course not. My husband is an adult. |
| Yes he does. He also likes their pictures but never comments |
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I find it somewhat creepy and could be construed as somewhat desperate. If he follows these girls on Instagram, wouldn't everyone he is connected to know about it?
I would be uncomfortable if my husband did this. However, maybe this is the new alternative to playboy magazines or watching porn? I know my husband occasionally watches porn because he told me; however, he is extremely discreet about it and it wouldn't bother me anyway. |