Does your husband follow Instagram models ?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It tells me he is in his twenties

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OP there are ways this could cross a line - following dozens and dozens of these accounts, leaving lots of comments, leaving any inappropriate comments, sending DMs - but just following isn't a big deal to me.

[Anonymous]

It would make me uncomfortable. I would tell my DH and would expect him not to.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I find it somewhat creepy and could be construed as somewhat desperate. If he follows these girls on Instagram, wouldn't everyone he is connected to know about it?

I would be uncomfortable if my husband did this. However, maybe this is the new alternative to playboy magazines or watching porn? I know my husband occasionally watches porn because he told me; however, he is extremely discreet about it and it wouldn't bother me anyway.

NP and this is why you do this from an anon account without pictures or anything that isn't linked to your FB or any other social media.

[Anonymous]

Men shouldn’t look at beautiful women? Lol

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men shouldn’t look at beautiful women? Lol

I think it is very disrespectful to their girlfriend/wife if they are not discreet about it. Following many of these types of women on Instagram is telling all his connections that he doesn't care about the feelings of his significant other. There is a term for these girls who flaunt their stuff on Instagram, but I forget what is the name of the term.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men shouldn’t look at beautiful women? Lol

I think it is very disrespectful to their girlfriend/wife if they are not discreet about it. Following many of these types of women on Instagram is telling all his connections that he doesn't care about the feelings of his significant other. There is a term for these girls who flaunt their stuff on Instagram, but I forget what is the name of the term.

Or that his significant other is not bothered by this at all? You're making quite an assumption here. DH follows "fitness models" and actual fitness models (he's really into weightlifting) and neither bothers me or makes me feel hurt or like our marriage is in trouble. Everybody likes boobs. He's not sliding into DMs or posting eggplant emojis, he's just scrolling past hotties while he's on the toilet.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men shouldn’t look at beautiful women? Lol

I think it is very disrespectful to their girlfriend/wife if they are not discreet about it. Following many of these types of women on Instagram is telling all his connections that he doesn't care about the feelings of his significant other. There is a term for these girls who flaunt their stuff on Instagram, but I forget what is the name of the term.

Or that his significant other is not bothered by this at all? You're making quite an assumption here. DH follows "fitness models" and actual fitness models (he's really into weightlifting) and neither bothers me or makes me feel hurt or like our marriage is in trouble. Everybody likes boobs. He's not sliding into DMs or posting eggplant emojis, he's just scrolling past hotties while he's on the toilet.

Well trashy people are all around us. So glad you two found each other.

[Anonymous]

I have secondary secondary Instagram account that I use to follow a couple of very pretty flight attendants and some other models, my wife knows and isn’t terribly bothered by it. We are both very secure in our marriage and feel that a little competition for each other‘s attention keeps things hot. She has a secondary account and follows a few artists and some admittedly super handsome dude who works for NASA.

[Anonymous]

Totally creepy. He can look up photos but following them is strange. Also could be problematic if his profile is public since employers and colleagues can see who he follows.

[Anonymous]

Following it on an account that you and poss let everyone else in his life knows about is akin to him staring at women on the street while you guys are walking together. It’s disrespectful and pathetic and borderline creepy. He can look all he wants, but he cannot follow.

[Anonymous]

It’s stupid to do it on his primary account where all his contacts could see.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men shouldn’t look at beautiful women? Lol

I think it is very disrespectful to their girlfriend/wife if they are not discreet about it. Following many of these types of women on Instagram is telling all his connections that he doesn't care about the feelings of his significant other. There is a term for these girls who flaunt their stuff on Instagram, but I forget what is the name of the term.

Or that his significant other is not bothered by this at all? You're making quite an assumption here. DH follows "fitness models" and actual fitness models (he's really into weightlifting) and neither bothers me or makes me feel hurt or like our marriage is in trouble. Everybody likes boobs. He's not sliding into DMs or posting eggplant emojis, he's just scrolling past hotties while he's on the toilet.

Well trashy people are all around us. So glad you two found each other.

Yes, people who are attracted to attractive people are trash. You've figured it all out, and will no doubt float through life happy and not at all bitterly disappointed and slighted by the existence of human sexuality.

[Anonymous]

We aren’t on any social media platforms.

We occasionally watch porn together and he has plenty of pictures of me. He knows some people that follow IG models and thinks it is weird.

[Anonymous]

It's normal but why do these fools follow them? Just watch porn on private browsing so your wife can pretend she is married to the rare dude who doesn't fantasize about other women

[Anonymous]

We don't have instagram....