Does your husband follow Instagram models ?

[Anonymous]

I would guess no, but I don’t monitor who he follows on social media, so I have no idea how I would know. My teenaged son, however, I monitor. And no, he does not.

[Anonymous]

It's kind of sad. There are billions of free porn clips all over the internet of all different varieties. I always assumed the guys who follow these models are thirsty losers who have some hope, somewhere deep in the back of their mind, that they can hook up or get with these women. There is a whole group of like a million basement dwellers that send them tips, gifts, or subscribe to their onlyfans

[Anonymous]

I mean, I’m a married woman and I follow hot celebrity guys. Nothing wrong with a little eye candy!

[Anonymous]

He does. And I follow some hot guys myself. Brock O’Hurn, Lucky B Smith, etc. So what? They’re pretty to look at. I’m married, not blind. I’ve never cheated and have never even been tempted.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I follow a number of hot grad students and med students who enjoy posing in lingerie and tiny bikinis. I sometimes comment on their photos. I expect I will eventually date on of these women.

Do you follow them on insta or irl

Insta.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Men shouldn’t look at beautiful women? Lol

I think it is very disrespectful to their girlfriend/wife if they are not discreet about it. Following many of these types of women on Instagram is telling all his connections that he doesn't care about the feelings of his significant other. There is a term for these girls who flaunt their stuff on Instagram, but I forget what is the name of the term.

Or that his significant other is not bothered by this at all? You're making quite an assumption here. DH follows "fitness models" and actual fitness models (he's really into weightlifting) and neither bothers me or makes me feel hurt or like our marriage is in trouble. Everybody likes boobs. He's not sliding into DMs or posting eggplant emojis, he's just scrolling past hotties while he's on the toilet.

Well trashy people are all around us. So glad you two found each other.

Yes, people who are attracted to attractive people are trash. You've figured it all out, and will no doubt float through life happy and not at all bitterly disappointed and slighted by the existence of human sexuality.

I hope for your sake (and the sake of humanity should you produce any spawn) that you are being deliberately obtuse. If not, you are painfully stupid. (And yes, adults who “follow” “eye candy” on their inane social media platforms are utter trash.)

[Anonymous]

Get butt injections like the ig models and your bf won't cheat with one of those "models"

[Anonymous]

Funny how IG and Twitter have replaced Playboy and Penthouse.

[Anonymous]

I have zero problems with this. There is nothing weird about enjoying looking at beautiful people. This is a very normal activity that both men and women in committed relationships engage in.

I do give some side eye to the guys who are always posting on these accounts, paying compliments or just being weirdly familiar. Including men I know who are married. Looking at these photos is no big deal at all to me. Posting kind of groveling compliments for these people who are total strangers is a bit weird to me, and I get the sense those guys are hoping for a like and that it's the interaction with the hot lady that really gets them going. They want to be noticed. I might find that mildly concerning just because it indicates a level of insecurity and a need for a certain kind of woman's attention that, if it got out of hand, could be disruptive to a committed relationship.

But like.. mildly concerning. None of those women are going to suddenly start hooking up with your fiancé unless he's like a pro athlete or super rich. In which case, you are probably always going to need to be a little wary of stuff like that, especially if he seems to encourage it. But the average guy? No -- these women are not interested in him.

[Anonymous]

Lol, no. He's not on Instagram.

[Anonymous]

Ever guy I know has multiple accounts for this very reason.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Get butt injections like the ig models and your bf won't cheat with one of those "models"

Those "models" are not interested in your middle (or upper middle) class worker bee boyfriends/husbands. There's a reason so many of them spend money on enhancing their bodies and are always jetting off to the likes of Dubai... they're trying to land a rich man.

[Anonymous]

Yeah ....look but weird to follow.

[Anonymous]

He follows a few "models" or whatever they are. Doesn't bother me. I know its just eye candy. And like someone said above, they don't want him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's kind of sad. There are billions of free porn clips all over the internet of all different varieties. I always assumed the guys who follow these models are thirsty losers who have some hope, somewhere deep in the back of their mind, that they can hook up or get with these women. There is a whole group of like a million basement dwellers that send them tips, gifts, or subscribe to their onlyfans

Following them is easier than keeping a post-it of their names. I don't like or comment. Other than looking at hot women, I mostly use IG for following things like NatGeo. It's incredibly unlikely that anyone in my life would look at who I follow as I haven't posted in nearly 3 years.

And if they do find out I follow attractive females I really don't care.