Little pink monster blog

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Anonymous wrote:She has entirely stopped posting - any guesses why?

Because people stopped caring??

She ran out of content ?

Or Kane got the kids full time and she has nothing to bitch about anymore

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Her blog isn’t linked in her insta. I haven’t looked at her insta in a long time. Did she exclusively switch to Etsy to sell stuff? Damn, years later this divorce is messy

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Anonymous wrote:Her blog isn’t linked in her insta. I haven’t looked at her insta in a long time. Did she exclusively switch to Etsy to sell stuff? Damn, years later this divorce is messy

How exhausting it must be to still, years later, have so much hate between two people. They're linked forever because of the kids so you'd think they'd find a way to act like adults.

Then again, it's Kane we're talking about so

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And I’m really asking this in sincerity: they loved each other at one point. Had two children together. How can do much hate exist? How can it grow to that extreme? I know many people have the similar thought I have which is that my husband is not only a part of me, I can live without him I spent a while living alone without him but somehow my life made more sense with him and as a whole he might be one of the best parts of me. We haven’t been married long so I attribute this as the definite honeymoon years (we definitely our own issues and challenges and have a baby on the way so those will grow). But with how much every spouse starts out loving their wife or husband, how does so much hate grow?
But then with kids, this I don’t understand. I’m pregnant with out first now, before getting pregnant I thought “sure if he cheats on me I’d never let him see the kids again” but now I would t want my kids to not know their dad (barring abuse) but using children and the emotions of your children to hurt your ex is so hurtful and hateful. I know every couple can say “never us, it’ll never happen” but it does and it can. How does so much hate grow and how can you let it eat into your kids life ? How well do you really know the person you marry ?

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Anonymous wrote:And I’m really asking this in sincerity: they loved each other at one point. Had two children together. How can do much hate exist? How can it grow to that extreme? I know many people have the similar thought I have which is that my husband is not only a part of me, I can live without him I spent a while living alone without him but somehow my life made more sense with him and as a whole he might be one of the best parts of me. We haven’t been married long so I attribute this as the definite honeymoon years (we definitely our own issues and challenges and have a baby on the way so those will grow). But with how much every spouse starts out loving their wife or husband, how does so much hate grow?
But then with kids, this I don’t understand. I’m pregnant with out first now, before getting pregnant I thought “sure if he cheats on me I’d never let him see the kids again” but now I would t want my kids to not know their dad (barring abuse) but using children and the emotions of your children to hurt your ex is so hurtful and hateful. I know every couple can say “never us, it’ll never happen” but it does and it can. How does so much hate grow and how can you let it eat into your kids life ? How well do you really know the person you marry ?

You sound like you've never been in an abusive relationship. Lucky girl. I think the general consensus is that Kane and Nat were abusive in lots of ways. That breeds hate and resentment.

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Anonymous wrote:And I’m really asking this in sincerity: they loved each other at one point. Had two children together. How can do much hate exist? How can it grow to that extreme? I know many people have the similar thought I have which is that my husband is not only a part of me, I can live without him I spent a while living alone without him but somehow my life made more sense with him and as a whole he might be one of the best parts of me. We haven’t been married long so I attribute this as the definite honeymoon years (we definitely our own issues and challenges and have a baby on the way so those will grow). But with how much every spouse starts out loving their wife or husband, how does so much hate grow?
But then with kids, this I don’t understand. I’m pregnant with out first now, before getting pregnant I thought “sure if he cheats on me I’d never let him see the kids again” but now I would t want my kids to not know their dad (barring abuse) but using children and the emotions of your children to hurt your ex is so hurtful and hateful. I know every couple can say “never us, it’ll never happen” but it does and it can. How does so much hate grow and how can you let it eat into your kids life ? How well do you really know the person you marry ?

You sound like you've never been in an abusive relationship. Lucky girl. I think the general consensus is that Kane and Nat were abusive in lots of ways. That breeds hate and resentment.

“Lucky girl” nice condescension. The lack of self empowerment, self worth the feeling of lack of choice and all that goes on with the abuse cycle the way to be the unlucky woman? Like a badge of honor? Someone in an abusive relationship feels the unnecessary shame and fear of abuse often times will not have the empowerment, esteem, the sense of self worth to leave someone but may feel trapped to marry that person. It can happen to anybody but having the confidence, empowerment and general ability to identify those qualities to avoid marrying and being legally tied to that person isn’t something to shit on. Is the fact that you don’t marry an abusive asshole and get out a flaw of some kind? It isn’t luck the day you decide “I am worth something, I don’t need you and you’re not the best of me” it takes a few years of work, it takes getting up, it takes a lot, but It’s not luck, you shovel enough shit you realize your worth and you work for what you have, it doesn’t just land in your palm and call it luck. At some point or another both have to find some way to let go of the hate because it will bleed into the girls. And yes, letting go of hate is a process that takes years and is painful. But it has to be done if it for them then for those girls.

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Anonymous wrote:Her blog isn’t linked in her insta. I haven’t looked at her insta in a long time. Did she exclusively switch to Etsy to sell stuff? Damn, years later this divorce is messy

Littlepinkmonsters.com

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:And I’m really asking this in sincerity: they loved each other at one point. Had two children together. How can do much hate exist? How can it grow to that extreme? I know many people have the similar thought I have which is that my husband is not only a part of me, I can live without him I spent a while living alone without him but somehow my life made more sense with him and as a whole he might be one of the best parts of me. We haven’t been married long so I attribute this as the definite honeymoon years (we definitely our own issues and challenges and have a baby on the way so those will grow). But with how much every spouse starts out loving their wife or husband, how does so much hate grow?
But then with kids, this I don’t understand. I’m pregnant with out first now, before getting pregnant I thought “sure if he cheats on me I’d never let him see the kids again” but now I would t want my kids to not know their dad (barring abuse) but using children and the emotions of your children to hurt your ex is so hurtful and hateful. I know every couple can say “never us, it’ll never happen” but it does and it can. How does so much hate grow and how can you let it eat into your kids life ? How well do you really know the person you marry ?

He's a very vindictive person. I can easily see the "if she isn't happy with me, she won't be happy with anyone" attitude from him.

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Did anyone see N’s most recent post? She suggested that she was punished in court for revealing what Peter had been doing. I wonder what happened. I stopped listening to the Kane show awhile ago, has he said anything?

[Anonymous]

Her post..the bolding is mine:

Morning my friend! So sorry for disappearing a bit, I hope one day life will be secure enough & I’ll be brave enough to share my entire story with you. I think there could be great healing by taking charge of the pain & determining myself what power it can hold. I also know that even though I wish these experiences didn’t happen, I have the power to help others by sharing them & then in return healing can come for me by knowing good came from all the heartache. That could be the one thing which brings peace, knowing the suffering meant something.

I knew when I made the decision to go back to court there would be unforeseen consequences, unfortunately I was short sighted as to where they would come from. But I’m working through it, I can look to the past & see that every time I thought I wouldn’t, couldn’t, overcome God gave me the strength to not just survive, but thrive. I can’t explain why, it’s certainly not because I on my own am so amazing, far from it, but that’s the beauty of grace right? Undeserved, unexplainable, grace. We just have to give ourselves the chance to accept it.

I had to pause my shop for a bit while my family & I made keeping our family together the top priority (I’m SO sorry if you tried to order or contact me through the shop & you didn’t get a reply!) but I’m now working again. You can expect some posts on new pieces this week!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Her post..the bolding is mine:

Morning my friend! So sorry for disappearing a bit, I hope one day life will be secure enough & I’ll be brave enough to share my entire story with you. I think there could be great healing by taking charge of the pain & determining myself what power it can hold. I also know that even though I wish these experiences didn’t happen, I have the power to help others by sharing them & then in return healing can come for me by knowing good came from all the heartache. That could be the one thing which brings peace, knowing the suffering meant something.

I knew when I made the decision to go back to court there would be unforeseen consequences, unfortunately I was short sighted as to where they would come from. But I’m working through it, I can look to the past & see that every time I thought I wouldn’t, couldn’t, overcome God gave me the strength to not just survive, but thrive. I can’t explain why, it’s certainly not because I on my own am so amazing, far from it, but that’s the beauty of grace right? Undeserved, unexplainable, grace. We just have to give ourselves the chance to accept it.

I had to pause my shop for a bit while my family & I made keeping our family together the top priority (I’m SO sorry if you tried to order or contact me through the shop & you didn’t get a reply!) but I’m now working again. You can expect some posts on new pieces this week!

I think she has the girls much more than the interns who post here want you to believe. Sounds like he's trying to take them away again, but I'm speculating.

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Kane is a heartless pig. Girls will be able to see they all this when they grow up.

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How long has this custody battle been raging? 5 years?? These poor girls. All they will remember is that their parents couldn’t grow up and see them as the priority. It’s so awful for them.

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On a lighter note, has anyone actually SEEN Kane lately? There are no recent pictures of him on any social media accounts. And I’m guessing he gained a ton of weight ??

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Anonymous wrote:How long has this custody battle been raging? 5 years?? These poor girls. All they will remember is that their parents couldn’t grow up and see them as the priority. It’s so awful for them.

I was just thinking that, how long ago was the first post about any of this? It's been a LONG time. Kids aren't stupid, they pick up on everything. They're gonna see Mom doing great with a new baby and husband while dad is hanging out with (40 year old) intern john.