sweater on a date
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Anonymous
| A guy on a first date last night wore a sweater. Total turn off? |
Anonymous
| Did you expect him to show up topless? |
Anonymous
| It's pretty cold out. What should he have worn? |
Anonymous
As opposed to what, exactly? |
Anonymous
| absolutely - he clearly doesn't respect you and value you like he should. You need to ghost him |
Anonymous
| My BF wore a nice sweater over a button down. Nice that he didn’t have a coat to keep track of the whole night while we moved from place to place. |
Anonymous
| I love a man in a sweater. |
Anonymous
| A sweater with a button down is my favorite men's outfit. My husband knows to wear that when we go on a date in the winter. |
Anonymous
| You sound crazy, OP. It's November. |
Anonymous
It was a thick one with a hood |
Anonymous
| You know you don't have to make up nonsense "dealbreakers" if you don't want to see someone again, right? If you're not interested, that's enough. You don't have to invent an imaginary breech of etiquette on his part that justifies denying him access to you. Just say "it was nice to meet you but I don't see this going any further." |
Anonymous
As always with these questions, there's something else about him that you don't like so you're seeking an arbitrary deal breaker. Move on. 
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Anonymous
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It's not a turnoff for us. It is a turn off for you. That's what matters.
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Anonymous
MMMMMmmmm, I LOVE him. Good choice. |
Anonymous
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A sweater? What was he thinking!?
Should've showed up a in a wetsuit. |