He has an AP
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Anonymous
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Someone told me that after seeing them.
Can’t stand my spouse! Where do I find investigator to get on digital trail??? We have all finances separate as I earn much more... Wanted to keep it separate after learning from the first divorce. |
Anonymous
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Will appreciate references.
I have kids... don’t want to live like this as a joke. |
Anonymous
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Just get a divorce.
Don’t waste your time trying to find evidence of infidelity. Nobody cares and it won’t help you in the divorce. I’m sorry this is happening to you. |
Anonymous
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“Someone told after seeing them.”
Seeing what? Them out to dinner? Leaving a hotel? |
Anonymous
I thought this can get me speedy divorce. |
Anonymous
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Would not evidence help me divorce ASAP?
I can’t stand him. |
Anonymous
What state? |
Anonymous
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VA.
Like a good girl I married and left megapolis NYC |
Anonymous
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But wait, if she makes more than him and he stepped out, proving the affair could keep her from paying alimony.
It’s not a bad idea to get the evidence. |
Anonymous
If he’s having an affair, you can file for divorce immediately (at fault) in Virginia. |
Anonymous
Dude. Even stay at home moms only rarely get alimony. It’s pretty much unheard of when both spouses work. |
Anonymous
Sorry OP. You are going to have to pay him alimony. Do you have kids? |
Anonymous
She’s in VA. Adultery = no alimony. OP, any private investigator can help you. |
Anonymous
| Let me guess: you never want sex with him.. and you aren't yet divorced. That can only mean **of course** he has an AP! That is the one thing that has been holding together your marriage. Why is this suddenly an issue? |
Anonymous
| Get a divorce lawyer, they’ll recommend the PI they work with. |