Nipple piercings?!

[Anonymous]

My wife just came home with nipple piercings. Did not consult me or talk about it with before hand at all. Should I be annoyed? Suspect cheating? She just said it was a spontaneous decision as she was driving by the piercing studio and has wanted them for awhile. To clarify we are in our young 30s, one kid.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My wife just came home with nipple piercings. Did not consult me or talk about it with before hand at all. Should I be annoyed? Suspect cheating? She just said it was a spontaneous decision as she was driving by the piercing studio and has wanted them for awhile. To clarify we are in our young 30s, one kid.

No. She does not need to clear it with you. Does she need to ask permission for a haircut? Let her have her moment. Talk more.

[Anonymous]

Not much you can do so just pretend you're cool with it.

Have dated many woman with them. Was exciting the first time but kinda meh from then on out.

[Anonymous]

Why would she want these

[Anonymous]

She’s cheating.

[Anonymous]

Ouch, yuck, don't assume anything. Has she every mentioned piercings (nipple or otherwise) before?

[Anonymous]

And ... are you annoyed? Do you suspect cheating? The nipple piercing doesn't point to those, but if you had thoughts about it before, please explain.

[Anonymous]

She doesn't have to 'consult' with you, since you don't own her body.

[Anonymous]

Trashy move. Get rid of her. No class tattoos are next.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote: She doesn't have to 'consult' with you, since you don't own her body.

Nobody has to do anything.

But equal partners should discuss major changes with (for the most part) the other partner being accepting supportive.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote: She doesn't have to 'consult' with you, since you don't own her body.

Nobody has to do anything.

But equal partners should discuss major changes with (for the most part) the other partner being accepting supportive.

This is not a major change. What interesting is that you don’t know enough about your wife that makes this is surprise. Do you have any in depth conversations about your internal lives?

[Anonymous]

She should have discussed it with you first. I'm a wife for the record.

[Anonymous]

Good heavens--you actually think she needed to consult with you about HER body? Really? If she wants them, then she can have them. If you want to get your dick pierced you get to do that--if you don't want your dick pierced, your wife doesn't get a vote about that either.

[Anonymous]

These replies just show you how stupid the world has become in a couple short decades

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote: She doesn't have to 'consult' with you, since you don't own her body.

Nobody has to do anything.

But equal partners should discuss major changes with (for the most part) the other partner being accepting supportive.

This is not a major change. What interesting is that you don’t know enough about your wife that makes this is surprise. Do you have any in depth conversations about your internal lives?

Why are you asking me? I’ve slept with women with pierced nipples and don’t really like them, but she’s not my wife.