Why be married if you’re not going to at least discuss before you come home with SEARCH & DESTROY tattooed across your forehead and a matching Prince Albert? |
| Woman here. I feel she should have mentioned it to you first and it’s weird that she’s wanted them for a while and failed to mention it even in passing. Is she displaying other spontaneous behaviour that has taken you by surprise lately? |
Um, I'd be really mad if my husband came home with a huge body change with no warning. Maybe I like it better without piercing. Part of being married is talking about such things with one another. Happily married people don't surprise their spouses with tattoos and piercings unless they are sure they will like them |
| Since we are on the subject, how much do they cost and where do you get them pierced? |
| Stop feeding the troll. |
| I got my hood pierced, discussed with DH why before doing it. |
What is a hood?? |
| If you care at all about you’re relationship you should respond lightly and not make a big deal about it. So what if she wanted a change and a small act of rebellion during this period of her life. If you act like her father rather than her husband that will lead to a lot of resentment and icky feelings on her side. |
| Oops I meant your not you’re obviously. I hate grammar mistakes |
| Ask her if she is feeling stuck. |
| So, what? Wait for it to heal and then enjoy it. Are you always dramatic? |
| Don’t knock it till you see how much she loves the additional stimulation. I took mine out to have kids but they were electrically fun for a while. |
| OP here - obviously I don’t own her body. Didn’t say that. Just thought it was odd that she didn’t mention anything. I would have said something if I was getting something similar. What if other people find out? |
NP, clitoral hood. You’re welcome. |
Oh dear. |