When To Have Sex?
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Anonymous
| I’m 32 and dating a new guy. I really like him but do not want to move too fast. When should you have sex? |
Anonymous
| Wait for him to push for it. Push back a little so you don't seem desperate. Then say yes. |
Anonymous
| Pp. Ideally you'd get married first, but I'm old fashioned like that. But my husband and I are happy we waited |
Anonymous
| 10 dates, minimum. After he demonstrates that he understands you are a Goddess Unlike Any Other. Read The Rules. |
Anonymous
I disagree. It’s very important to know whether you’re sexually compatible before marriage. |
Anonymous
| Ask him. |
Anonymous
Lol. Like no means yes? |
Anonymous
Except when no means no. Also when no means “let me think” moments. |
Anonymous
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You are 32 and you need to crowd source this? Really?
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Anonymous
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When do you have sex? When you are ready. If he is not ready, then you don't. If he is ready and you are not, you don't.
You do not need for him to make the first move. There are ways you can let him know you want to have sex. Some are subtle, some are not. |
Anonymous
| You won't be having sex with this guy, I can tell. It's a fizzler. |
Anonymous
| When you want it. I hate games. You want sex? have sex. Don't play games. |
Anonymous
She also needs to lie a little and tell him that she’s never hooked up like this before and it is only because he’s special. So he doesn’t think she’s easy. In addition to pretending she means no when she really means yes. |
Anonymous
NP, but I really think that the “rules” of dating have changed since many of us did it. |
Anonymous
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Date 3 or 4 -- a guy is saying this
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