When To Have Sex?
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Anonymous
Not wise |
Anonymous
| 3rd date rule |
Anonymous
Yep three dates is plenty of time. If you do not know by the third time, you are just wasting time. |
Anonymous
Why is being honest about your feelings, wants, and needs not wise? |
Anonymous
This sounds like a plot to get him slapped with a #metoo |
Anonymous
Cuz that's not how male female relationships work. |
Anonymous
? Mine always have. 22 years. |
Anonymous
| Male here, I wait till there is some type of established relationship other than just a couple dates. |
Anonymous
| After he goes down on you. |
Anonymous
| When your panties feel wet! |
Anonymous
+1 THIS Wth is up with some of these answers? |
Anonymous
| When you both want to, if that'ts the first atem great. If it's the 3rd date, great!. If it's after 6 months or after marriage great! Do what works for the both of you. |
Anonymous
| I’m 32 and normally I don’t think much about it but this time it’s different. I’m looking for marriage and want to develop a mental and emotional relationship before becoming physical. I’m not concerned with looking “ easy”, as I’m more concerned with the physical side taking over everything else. I definitely want to have sex but I don’t want to rush it. I’ve stayed in relationships or overlooked things in the past because the sex was good. I want more out a relationship because I’m looking for marriage. |
Anonymous
If you are 32 and you know this, why are you crowd sourcing this info on DCUM? Tell your guy what you wrote above and figure it out together. If he says, I too want to see if you are marriage material and would like to have an emotional and mental connection with you first before having sex, then that is a good sign. If he says, no thank you, then that is a bad sign. Point is, talk to your guy. Not us. |
Anonymous
At 32 you should be able to say that to your date. You need to be able to articulate that you want exclusivity before having sex. Men who are looking for marriage will appreciate this. Men who aren’t interested in a serious relationship will not. It’s a good way to sort out people who do want the same things as you. |