^^ I was wondering who the crazies were who caused the change in policy (re: birthday celebrations) this year at Brent! I'll bet you also think anyone who has more than a glass of wine a month should head on over to AA. |
Me too! I have several candidates (from PTA meetings/playground encounters) in mind . . . |
Couldn't agree more. Its ridiculous. I would love to know the race of the people who use this term. |
There are many parents at Brent who could use a little stick-removal surgery. |
| Perhaps the Brent infighting should be taken to another thread . . . As entertaining as it might be. |
| NP here and new to DC Urban Mom. Funny, I thought "snowflake" was a general term of endearment to mean your unique beautiful child. I've seen it in several contexts and didn't see it as racist. I'm an AA parent and assumed my DC was a snowflake too. I've actually called DC "snowflake." I guess I'll stop using that term now! : o |
No, don't listen to stupid PP who said that term was racist. |
| At minimum, the term is used to imply that your child is soooo special and more important than others. I often see it used in the "just because you think your precious little snowflake...something rude" context. Its definitely not meant to be nice. Elitist at best, racist at worst. Anyway, I am white and its offends me. I do my best not to offend others and would love the same in return. |
| Snowflake around here is used in a mean way to infer that the child is so fragile and his/her needs so intricate that the slightest infringement will cause her to melt. It definitely has rascist overtones no matter the race of the user or the target. Please stop using it. |
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Not racist, and usually not used racially, even on DCUM.
special snowflake A problem person. A person who thinks they are unique, different and therefor more special that everyone else. Derived from too many parents telling their kids they are "special," like a "snowflake." Typically used by used by those in the customer service or retail industry to refer to bad customers. http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=special%20snowflake |
| Whatever. Still ugly and strikes me as rascist. Please stop using it. Especially to refer to children. Lets disagree but not be nasty. |
We are going to need a list if you are going to deem snowflake racist. Plus calling a child this is really making fun of the parent. Not that hard to understand. I bet idioms confuse you too. |
| Snowflake as used on DCUM is racist. Period. We may be anonymous, but the message is clear. |
I think you are mad at something or someone else and are taking it out on anonymous strangers. I hope it brings you peace. |
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Hahahaha. So white people get to be up in arms over the term "snowflake"? Get real. All other minorities actually have hateful & rude terms that have been used for centuries by white people. Lord! white people institutionalized rascim.
I'm white and if your precious little snowflake is screaming in the Giant check out over the use of your iPad I will most definitely refer to them as a snowflake regardless or race. |