Dating my friend's dad

[Anonymous]

I'm a 33 year old woman who is friends with a 28 year old co-worker/friend. She introduced me to her dad at a pre-Covid party, and he and I stayed in touch. He is only 52 and still in great shape (full head of hair, very slim, 6'2, muscles, etc) and is an attorney. I am a GS-12 who is trying to settle down and he and I have really connected during COVID lockdown. He and I still have not "done the deed" because part of me think it's weird that that I'm friends with his daughter and have known her for over 5 years. But he says he's very interested in getting re-married and having more children, which is something I am definitely interested in.

I feel conflicted. I know she would consider me one of her best friends, but she has no idea that I've been seeing her dad. I also feel so tempted to finally "seal the deal" with him because he's so hot, and I know he gets turned on when we're kissing.

[Anonymous]

Ewwwwwwww. It will end, and you'll be the story she tells at cocktail parties forevermore.

[Anonymous]

Was your father mostly absent?

[Anonymous]

Ew, that is just gross. I hope this is a troll.

[Anonymous]

Um no. It’s fine now, but picture a naked (or dead) 72 year old. Is that what you want for your kids?

[Anonymous]

Fake. Not even sure how you all would get introduced at a party and then exchange numbers. Exchanged numbers for what?

[Anonymous]

No. Just no.

[Anonymous]

If you date him I don’t know how much stock I’d put into his getting remarried and wanting more kids thing.

I think your friend will be weirded out unless she’s very open minded.

I personally have never understood huge age gaps but otherwise it seems like no one is getting hurt here so go for it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:If you date him I don’t know how much stock I’d put into his getting remarried and wanting more kids thing.

I think your friend will be weirded out unless she’s very open minded.

I personally have never understood huge age gaps but otherwise it seems like no one is getting hurt here so go for it.

Many of his golfing buddies and men in his firm are re-marrying at 50+ and having 3+ children (think Alec Baldwin). I would love to be able to quit my GS-12 job and stay at home, but still not sure what to do. If I work really hard, I might be able to get promoted to a GS-13 in a couple years.

[Anonymous]

This cannot be a real post. If it is, what the hell is wrong with you?

No healthy adult would consider sating a friend's parent.


Either way fake or real you need therapy.

[Anonymous]

If you really want to find a nice mature man, you should ask if his father is still around. Why date daddy when Pawpaw might be still willing to crawl his wrinkled body on top of a pert young GS-12.

[Anonymous]

I don't recommend it because of the age difference, but if he's a kind and honest person, why not?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:If you date him I don’t know how much stock I’d put into his getting remarried and wanting more kids thing.

I think your friend will be weirded out unless she’s very open minded.

I personally have never understood huge age gaps but otherwise it seems like no one is getting hurt here so go for it.

Many of his golfing buddies and men in his firm are re-marrying at 50+ and having 3+ children (think Alec Baldwin). I would love to be able to quit my GS-12 job and stay at home, but still not sure what to do. If I work really hard, I might be able to get promoted to a GS-13 in a couple years.

Yeah, your definitely a troll.

[Anonymous]

Your friend’s dad? This is a lifetime of conflict with friend/daughter. That’s strange.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you really want to find a nice mature man, you should ask if his father is still around. Why date daddy when Pawpaw might be still willing to crawl his wrinkled body on top of a pert young GS-12.

Lol!!! Well said.