Sex on the first date...
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Anonymous
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I went out last night with a guy I really like. We met through friends and hit it off. It was a first date and I slept with him. I’m a little nervous that I ruined my chances at a good thing. He seems interested with texting me If I want to get together again tonight, but I’m worried he sees me now as just sex. I don’t sleep around but it’s been a very long time and it just felt right. I did drink some wine ( not enough to get me drunk) but I really wanted to. The sex was very good and very dirty. I don’t know if I should just let things play out or talk with I’m tonight about wanting something serious again? We both said we are looking for relationship at dinner last night. |
Anonymous
| Pretty sure you need to grow up first |
Anonymous
| Trashy |
Anonymous
| Normal and hot. Good for you! |
Anonymous
| Just let it play out |
Anonymous
+1 I've been letting mine play out out for 13 years now. |
Anonymous
| My wife and I met through similar circumstances and had sex on our second date ( technically first). It was amazing and still is 5 years later. I got an office and we played boss/secretary yesterday. I didn’t mind my wife having sex early on because at least I knew the sex would hot. I wouldn’t date a woman who felt she needed to wait x amount of dates. I would worry her sex drive isn’t that high. My wife and I have sex everyday and it’s always good. |
Anonymous
| Just don’t try walking it back to “let’s go slow” because that won’t fly. |
Anonymous
This. The cat is out of the bag...and that is fine. |
Anonymous
| Decline getting together tonight and opt for getting together tomorrow—somewhere outside and during the day. No alcohol. |
Anonymous
| two date rule. learn it. live it. |
Anonymous
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If it felt right, then you have nothing to worry about, OP. |
Anonymous
| He wants more sex... that’s why he’s reaching out. |
Anonymous
Yes of course. And so does she. That is how good relationships work. You both want to get together. |
Anonymous
| I had sex with my now DH before the first date. 20 years and 2 kids later, we’re still going. |