Communication Frequency

[Anonymous]

I've been dating a woman for a few months now and the in-person dates go great. But, we don't talk much outside of when we see each other. Maybe a few texts here and there. How much is normal to talk outside of dates? And, should I bring this up to her? I don't want to appear needy or clingy, but also want to move towards a relationship. I haven't dated in a while so moving this far along is also new to me. Thanks in advance!!

[Anonymous]

Does she respond if you text? Answer if you call? Or are you wanting her to initiate conversations?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Does she respond if you text? Answer if you call? Or are you wanting her to initiate conversations?

Yeah she responds if I text. But it's only every few days I do. I haven't called. She said before she doesn't like talking on the phone. It just feels like in between date connection is lacking but also don't want to push for more than there should be.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I've been dating a woman for a few months now and the in-person dates go great. But, we don't talk much outside of when we see each other. Maybe a few texts here and there. How much is normal to talk outside of dates? And, should I bring this up to her? I don't want to appear needy or clingy, but also want to move towards a relationship. I haven't dated in a while so moving this far along is also new to me. Thanks in advance!!

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[Anonymous]

She is not that into you. She doesn’t want anything serious

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She is not that into you. She doesn’t want anything serious

Agreed. She's not that interested. Believe me, if she were she'd be talking to you ALOT.

[Anonymous]

Ask her to go away with you on a trip. Or meet your parents. That will scare her away or solidify the relationship. At least you'll know.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She is not that into you. She doesn’t want anything serious

Agreed. She's not that interested. Believe me, if she were she'd be talking to you ALOT.

Eh. I disagree I’m a woman and I hate talking on the phone. If she NEVER initiates text conversations then maybe she’s not that into you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She is not that into you. She doesn’t want anything serious

Agreed. She's not that interested. Believe me, if she were she'd be talking to you ALOT.

Eh. I disagree I’m a woman and I hate talking on the phone. If she NEVER initiates text conversations then maybe she’s not that into you.

She does I do more. We only text evey few days but she always accepts every date idea I ask her out for.

[Anonymous]

How often are the dates?

I think texting only every few days sounds delightful

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:How often are the dates?

I think texting only every few days sounds delightful

2x weekly. Maybe three times sometimes

[Anonymous]

Maybe she doesn't want to seem clingy or needy. How about you communicate how what you want in a subtle way. Does she ever text you in the morning? If so, text her that you love waking up to her text. Or, how about a text at a random time telling her you'd love to hear her voice.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe she doesn't want to seem clingy or needy. How about you communicate how what you want in a subtle way. Does she ever text you in the morning? If so, text her that you love waking up to her text. Or, how about a text at a random time telling her you'd love to hear her voice.

She hardly texts in the morning

[Anonymous]

Why don't you ask her what's up?

[Anonymous]

She might be trying to play it cool and match you energy, waiting for you to make it clear you want a relationship.