Communication Frequency

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:[youtube]

Anonymous wrote:How often are the dates?

I think texting only every few days sounds delightful

2x weekly. Maybe three times sometimes

You’re already meeting her twice a week. I wouldn’t want too much more texting etc. I think it depends on each person.

Are you just divorced that you’re a bit not sure how to gauge?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:[youtube]

Anonymous wrote:How often are the dates?

I think texting only every few days sounds delightful

2x weekly. Maybe three times sometimes

Ok so I just saw this you see each other 2 to 3 times a week and text every couple of days, that seems like plenty for people who are not in an official relationship. If you would like to talk to her more just do it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:[youtube]

Anonymous wrote:How often are the dates?

I think texting only every few days sounds delightful

2x weekly. Maybe three times sometimes

Ok so I just saw this you see each other 2 to 3 times a week and text every couple of days, that seems like plenty for people who are not in an official relationship. If you would like to talk to her more just do it.

Maybe bring up being in a relationship if you want? Is that really what you're wanting?

[Anonymous]

TOTALLY disagree with the she's not into you view.

I HATE the constant feeling of being obligated to text or call someone for small talk. If she's into on a date & responding to your texts she may be less into virtual communication but just see her.

My BF was really frustrated because he felt like I was MIA in the beginning- but he decided to pursue things by seeing me in person more. Once we got more serious I was very mindful that he needed more communication than me and we kind of met in the middle.

I was very attracted to his willingness to show his interest as well- he didn't care who called last or who's turn it was to text. .

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:TOTALLY disagree with the she's not into you view.

I HATE the constant feeling of being obligated to text or call someone for small talk. If she's into on a date & responding to your texts she may be less into virtual communication but just see her.

My BF was really frustrated because he felt like I was MIA in the beginning- but he decided to pursue things by seeing me in person more. Once we got more serious I was very mindful that he needed more communication than me and we kind of met in the middle.

I was very attracted to his willingness to show his interest as well- he didn't care who called last or who's turn it was to text. .

This is exactly how it feels!

[Anonymous]

If you are seeing her 2-3 times a week infrequent texting is not a problem. Don’t come across as needy, women hate it.

[Anonymous]

Demote her to FWB until things change or you meet someone new.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Demote her to FWB until things change or you meet someone new.

A little harsh?

[Anonymous]

Wait. So you're barely reaching out but you want her to initiate more? Why not bring up the topic of a relationship and see where her head is?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wait. So you're barely reaching out but you want her to initiate more? Why not bring up the topic of a relationship and see where her head is?

It's only been a few months.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Demote her to FWB until things change or you meet someone new.

A little harsh?

Why do you say that? He's not getting what he wants. Shouldn't he adjust the relationship accordingly?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Demote her to FWB until things change or you meet someone new.

A little harsh?

Why do you say that? He's not getting what he wants. Shouldn't he adjust the relationship accordingly?

I completely agree. If she were that interested she'd communicate more. Clearly she's either not emotionally available or playing the field. Either way he should just move on. Not worth his time.

[Anonymous]

This is so strange to me! In a year, are you still going to talk every few days? Seriously?

[Anonymous]

Woman here. I hate texting. I have better things to do, I don't text during work, and I hate feeling like I'm at someone's beck and call. I also think it spoils men - they get attention without having to make any real effort.

If you want to talk more, invite her out more.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Woman here. I hate texting. I have better things to do, I don't text during work, and I hate feeling like I'm at someone's beck and call. I also think it spoils men - they get attention without having to make any real effort.

If you want to talk more, invite her out more.

Do you expect phone calls or real dates?