| Most people can't afford to do it. Which is why there is so much angst about it. |
| As a teacher it frustrates me. Nearly without exception, the kids who are most challenged by kindergarten are the youngest boys. At my school, nearly all the white parents hold summer birthday boys back. None of the black or Hispanic parents do. So there is this crazy inequality built into the system from day 1. There has to be a better way to do this. |
It would be quite the poor decision to pay for an extra year of daycare AND be wrong about redshirting being advantegeous.
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Most studies show it's harmful, not advantageous in the long run and it is actually pretty common. |
So why do people care? I don't believe they are that worried about the futures of affluent kids. Something doesn't add up. |
But it doesn't help the white kids, or does it? If it doesn't help them then what is inequitable? |
Thought that was common knowledge. DC also had an August birthday. They were kind of quiet and very well behaved and were always at the top of the clas for math and reading from the start despite their age. |
I know that, but even among those who can afford it, the vast majority don't. |
We could afford it and choose not to. We have a fall kid who we pushed forward. Child is thriving/older and I cannot imagine them a year behind. |
Because there's no proof that it's actually advantageous, so most people let nature dictate when their kid starts school. It's only the helicopter parents who fear their mediocre child will be tagged as mediocre, who redshirt. But that same child will not magically become less mediocre as the years pass. |
Is that what you took from all of this? As I said it is not impactful to my kid to be younger but YMMV. He does not care if he cannot drive or have a beer. He is fine. Thank you for your faux concern or whatever you were spewing. Yes, life sucked for you. Sorry. You are not my kid and I cannot take the burden of what went wrong with your life.
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+ 1 If your kid can handle kindergarten at 5 and my kid can handle kindergarten at 6, your kid is clearly more advanced than my child by at least a year. |
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It’s hilarious how the anti-redshirters will simultaneously screech about how some kids are getting an unfair advantage AND assert that redshirting makes kids dumb, poor, and violent.
They should thank redshirters for making their kids relatively younger, which is an advantage, right? Enjoy! Your precious Larla will be super advanced because of all of those dumb older kids! Or you could just worry about your own kids’ education, and let other people worry about theirs. |
Real question is why can't you kid handle K at 5? Maybe you should get yours evaluated. |
Most kids aren't waiting till 21 to have a beer, lets be real. Saying you should hold your kid back so they can drive first makes absolutely no sense. If that poster dropped out of college due to anxiety, it has nothing to do with age, it has to do with a mental health issue that regardless of age needed to be treated. If anything where were the parents noticing their child had anxiety and helping them get it treated. Being older doesn't stop these issues. |