So without school choice you would commit fraud? I guess fraud "prevention" is a reason to keep choice? |
+yup. Anyone can care about schools but it matters most when you have skin in the game and your children are school age. Childhood is fleeting. With kids who are close to graduation I can say from experience that I spent tons of energy and time on school issues when it mattered for me. Now that my kids are almost done, my attention is shifting. Parents will never, ever chance their child's education on a crappy or even iffy solution if they have other options. Talk to more parents who have tried to make a go of it at their struggling title 1 school. Often your efforts and middle class mindset aren't even welcome. |
While it's wrong, I wouldn't blame her. |
| Someone posts a thread like this every few months. There is not that much parents can do at the end of the day especially when it comes to middle and high schools. Parents are not the problem. DCPS leadership is for the most part ineffective and incompetent. OSSE is even worse unfortunately. OSSE is full of patronage hires - people who don’t know much about education and are not even particularly interested in it. |
I don't know. I would say the proper response would be to move or go private, but I guess some people just don't feel like the rules apply to them. |
BEST Comment in this thread. It's pretty clear that in DC, white=money. I assure you in a place like Tennessee or Kentucky, white does not automatically mean you have money. |
I want some one to illustrate this. Like a New Yorker cartoon. |
That's it in a nutshell. The DCPS bureaucracy LIKES having a school system that is predominantly lower-income, as that means less accountability. High income, highly educated parents are demanding; they want accountability; they want non-responsive bureaucrats (like the guy who couldn't get the Giant donation form correct as described by a PP above) fired. That's why DCPS gave "autonomous" status to most WOTP elementaries years ago---sort of a "we'll leave you alone if you leave us alone" bargain. The whole theory behind charters 20 years ago was that charters enabled more school choice for niche programs: expeditionary learning, montessori, dual language, classics---and that charters would also cause regular DCPS to up its game. DCPS' only response was to throw millions and millions at renovating high schools EOTP without doing anything else. |
| my experience with joining a local DCPS that had almost no people with experience with advocacy and gaining access is that once "white people" (which as others have mentioned, means upper income people with time, education, bureaucratic and business experience with POWER basically, who are...generally White) showed up, the bureaucracy started to react. Not act like we were in charge, but before it had acted like it did NOT have to give a shit about these underprivileged people AT ALL. Which really sucks. And I say this not to say that "white people" are cool or should have any power, but once people like that start showing up in a school things start to become much more responsive. It is one more thing that proves how shitty America is. |
People without children are not a sub-species of individuals undeserving of full, examined lives. They are not "filling their time" anymore than parents of children are "filling time." If they want to have a guest bedroom, and can afford a mortgage, it's none of your business. We could also look at the HGTV-esque millennial materialism - where each child "needs" their own room and parents "need" an en suite bathroom. Many parents who insist on these features magically survived a childhood where they shared bedrooms and bathrooms. It's not charter schools driving up the prices of neighborhoods - it's people not wanting to spend hours commuting, the fact that people are single longer (or divorced) - this is why you see PG country experiencing mass growth even though the schools are not great, or Wheaton experiencing a "renaissance." |
Dude, there's really nothing in this thread that is putting down childless people. That seems to be weirdly manufactured. Someone just spoke about their own preference for an apartment over a house. This thread, though, is about schools, which teach children, so it's odd to be focusing on the people without children, particularly when that link to the present dialogue seems to be non-existent. |
Sad. What school? |
Yeah, you really need to out this school. And I blame the Chancellor for abdicating his duty to individual principals. |
Very interesting. So is it white privilege a la Nice White Parents? Should they then not do anything etc? Or is it good to use your white privelege in this way? This discussion finally getting interesting. I like hearing from folks who actually have real school examples, if you’re willing to name them. We avoided our IB and only looked at one or two other nearby DCPS. In NE. Sometimes feel like we should’ve invested more, other times honestly so glad we never had to deal. |
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+1 on outing the school from the other side. It'd be interesting to see whether there is a school where teachers, principals and a few parents can keep a DCPS school "closed." I assume you mean very limited opening, not actually closed, if it's a DCPS.
In our kids' school, a very few parents spoke up very screamy and aggressive, OPEN OPEN OPEN OPEN and sent like 50 bulleted questions to everyone telling the Principal to answer them all right now and by the way reopen yesterday. And when a very few parents said "look this is hard, we want to get through this as a community" these couple parents screamed louder and started blaming everyone for not reopening NOW NOW NOW NOW NOW!!!!! And it's really stupid because there were other parents thinking creatively and trying to work through the community toward reopening gradually more and more, and all these couple of screamers did was make themselves sound insane. |