Anonymous wrote:If you asked me before I had kids, I would say boy then girl. But now I have 2 boys, ages 8 and 10. And I wouldn’t change a thing.
This is me, exactly (even the ages are the same). I always figured I would want one of each as that is how I grew up but seeing the strong bond between my sons makes me so happy. My brother and I are close but not like my sons. I think same-sex siblings is a completely different experience (assuming they get along). I would have been fine with a girl but I certainly don't long for one (and would never consider a 3rd just to try for a girl).
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