If you could pick the sex of your child/children

[Anonymous]

I would have picked all girls and missed out on the beautiful amazing special boy my son is!

Coulda woulda shoulda, you'll get little people you need to get to know regardless of their gender. I thought this mattered more before I had kids (I have GBG)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would have chosen all girls. I have girl/boy now. While having a boy has been lovely and I’m glad I didn’t get my way, still hoping for the 3rd to be a girl!

All girls, without a doubt.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Girls have to much baggage and are difficult especially with popular culture trying to redefine their place in society

Yea, boys growing up to be responsible for the vast majority of crimes including (but not limited to) rape and murder really pales in comparison to teenage girl drama

Wtf is wrong with you?

[Anonymous]

I’d envisioned myself with two girls, which isn’t what happened. We adopted our first and chose a girl with the assumption that our next child would be a boy (way more boys available for adoption in the country we adopted from). I gave birth to our second, which was a boy. Love both of them so much but do wonder if same sex siblings are closer in general.

[Anonymous]

If picking required nothing more than being on the top for a girl and being on the bottom for a boy I would have picked if I first had a boy. I'd pick a girl for #2. But if picking required any kind of medical intervention, no way. Let nature take it's course!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’d envisioned myself with two girls, which isn’t what happened. We adopted our first and chose a girl with the assumption that our next child would be a boy (way more boys available for adoption in the country we adopted from). I gave birth to our second, which was a boy. Love both of them so much but do wonder if same sex siblings are closer in general.

My 7YO son and almost 5YO daughter have been great playmates during COVID. They are lucky to have each other.

[Anonymous]

Would you? yes

Which sex would you pick? boy, boy

If you have 2+ children which sex would you pick to be born first?

Does t matter to you at all?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I adopted and i chose a girl. I was at first offered a boy and declined. 2 weeks later I was offered a girl and now have my beautiful daughter, going on 19. I was only going to have and raise one child and it was never a question in my mind -- a daughter.

If I had decided to birth to a child I would have absolutely chosen/screened for gender, as i did for chromosomal damage or any other issue I was not comfortable taking on.

this is so weird, imo!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH and I screened for gender as as well as all the typical stuff. We already had 2 girls and we both really just wanted a boy as our last child. Thank goodness. we did get a boy; we would have terminated and started again.

I am pro-choice, but this rubs me the wrong way on so many different levels.

soooo many, some of you are so off

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’d envisioned myself with two girls, which isn’t what happened. We adopted our first and chose a girl with the assumption that our next child would be a boy (way more boys available for adoption in the country we adopted from). I gave birth to our second, which was a boy. Love both of them so much but do wonder if same sex siblings are closer in general.

My 7YO son and almost 5YO daughter have been great playmates during COVID. They are lucky to have each other.

PP here. That is great that your children have been great playmates! My kids are twice as old as yours and they get along well, but I don’t think either would choose each other as their first choice of playmates. Of course, that probably is somewhat a matter of ages and stages of development for them as teens and tweens.

[Anonymous]

Most American white women prefer girls. We can end up like China with too many women and a few men.

[Anonymous]

I have a girl and a boy now. I'm happy we have one of both, but if we have a 3rd one, I'm kind of hoping it's a girl because I don't know if I can handle another boy haha.

[Anonymous]

Im in agreement with my body, my future, my choice. As a single mom i am only interested in raising a girl.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't want to pick. I get what I get.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Most American white women prefer girls. We can end up like China with too many women and a few men.

Uhhh, it's exactly the opposite in China -- too many men and too few women. You know that there is cultural preference for boys in China-- which is changing a big, educated UMC women now prefer girls, but overall still a strong boy preference? There are a lot of men looking for partners in China and not getting them. Sociologists predict that it's going to lead to a lot of social unrest as there is a huge cohort of unattached, frustrateda and dissatisfied men out there.